ACCEPTACE ON LIFES TERMS Things happen, A healthly friend dies for no known reason, a person works hard on his or her marriage only to come  home one day and find the other in bed with another person. A knock on the door, and a starving family that lost everything finds a bag a groceries piled anonymously on the front purch.   Life has twists.  Sometimes it goes the other way, too.  Things happen but its the way we handle them thats important and  how we react.  We cannot always see the reason or purpose in them, but some of us choose to believe ' it is what it is' We choose to live life on lifes terms. Today I choose not to ask why  but to seek the solution to any given problem that comes along. Are we focusing on the circumstances of are life instead of the lesson?? The circumstances are the toools, be involved in the and we find the answers. Instead of asking why learn to ask what is the lesson is.  The moment you become ready to accept it the lesson will become clear. I ask my HP to help me accept all the twists and turns along this path of life and to to be teachable to say whatever happens, happens. To a work in progess and another day. till next time