So now I'm at work. Unable to concentrate, but lots to do. Things are the same everyday lately. The crying has subsided for many hours at work. I just feel empty. I still feel like crying often, but am better able to manage it. My grandchildren are about the same. They cry less, but feel the emptiness & profound sadness. How unfair life can be at times.

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ihart
ihart

Life is unfair...my heart goes out to you and the grandkids. Hugs, Inga
KimRW
KimRW

Yes, it is unfair. Losing a child is definitely unfair. But just continue to take it one day and one step at a time. Sending you a hug........Kim
biowoman
biowoman

It isn\'t fair, is it. Eventually the emptiness will change and you will begin to feel things...put things into that empty place. The place where I child goes...doesn\'t ever seem to fill...but, I guess we learn to cope better and other things that we CAN enjoy come in again...it takes a long time...love to you...Karen