Woke up this morning at 3:00 being thrown out of a pick-up at 60mph,don`t know why I had this nightmare agian,except that I had a rough day yesterday.I guess I just got to tired mentaly from all the problems with getting the MRI`s that the doc ordered.Didn`t actually get the MRI`s because the tech that was to do it wouldn`t do it because I told him that I have a shunt in my neck and didn`t know what kind it is.If I had the doctor`s report he probably would have done it.He said that with out the Radiologist being there he was not going to take the responsability for doing it.He thought it might be a metal shunt,but I told him that I have had an MRI post surgery but he still would not do it ,so I had to wait for him to call my doc and change the order`s to x-ray`s instead.After 2 hours having to wait on the order`s then having to get them done,took another 1 1/2 hr. I was getting pretty tired.I went in at 1:45 and didn`t get to leave until 4:15,so I had to run home and let Baxter out and then turn around and go back to the hospital to pick Brendy up at 5:00. Then we get home and just start to relax a little and Lance[the guy that takes oxygen to Brendy`s Dad]came over and he tell`s us that her Dad is insisting that he bring his oxygen back to him.The doc had to take him off the oxygen because his O2 level`s are up in the 92 to95 range and the insurance won`t pay for it anymore because he doaen`t need it anymore scince he has had the pace maker put in his circulation and O2 has been better than most people but he is pissed at Brendy about it and is blaming her for getting it taken away.She had nothing to do with it.Any way Lance has been getting called by Brendy`s Dad ,he said he got 10 call`s from him just yesterday which I can believe because he would call us at least 10 times a day,that is why we had our phone # changed so he can`t call us all the time.After Lance left we get a call from Brebdy`s work office and they had gotten a call from her Dad at the office and he is trying to get them to give him our phone# so that he can call us and bitch about his oxygen being taken away.So then Brendy call`s him and tries to get it through his thick skull that she is not the one responsible for them taking away his oxygen.He is like a big BABY that has to get everything his way,and if he can`t get what he want`s then he throws a tantrum.I am getting to where I really don`t like him very much any more.He is trying to do everything he can to get Brendy fired because he has been fold that she is not allowed to get personal call`s at work,hell I don`t even call her when she is at work because of there policy of no personal call`s.He just dosen`t care.I found out from Brendy that after she graduated from High School she wanted to go to colledge but her Dad told her ,Why don`t you just get married and get out of my life.Is that any way for a Dad to talk to his daughter.I mean he is supposed to support his family and he could have at least tried to help her but he thought of her as being a burden instead of her being his baby girl and taking as many steps as he could to make sure she had the best chance of making it in this world.If we had been able to have children we would have done anything to make sure they had the best chance to get ahead in this world.Brendy has told me before that he didn`t go to any of her award functions in school,her Mom did but he would put her through hell after she would come home because she wasn`t there to wait on him.I better go before I get so pissed off and do something I might regret.Later.M.

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i\'m so sorry that you and brendy have to go through this mess with brendys dad. can\'t you\'ll talk to his dr and see if he will sign papers to have him admitted into a nursing home? that way he can\'t blame brendy. you know dr\'s can do that? well they can here in texas. hope you\'ll can work something out with him......debbie