I have been thinking about getting off of here because of some of the people who get on here and give advice on how you should feel or what you should do or try without anything being wrong with them.If I could I would do all the things that I used to be able to do.But I have been to more doctors than most people see in a life time and tried most every thing there is to help me get better ,you would think these people would just stop and think about what they are saying before they open theirĀ big mouth and sticking their big feet in it.Those of us here have been through the ringer in regards to our physical or mental problems I think that if we could heal ourselves we would jump at the chance to do it .So please if you haven`t been in my shoes ,don`t give me advice.I don`t need it and don`t want it.I guess what I`m trying to say is I didn`t come to this site to be made fun of or to be berated about my physical or mental problems I came here so that I might relate to some people with the same difaculties as I have ie..doctors,pain,disabilities and so forth.I hope you get it that we don`t want your advice unless you have been through the same thing we have,and keep in mind that we are all different and not everything that worked for you will work for us.Just be careful not to step to hard on my toes because maybe one day you could be in the same boat as I`m in and it won`t be as clear cut as you thought it was going to be.I think I`ve said enough on this subject for now,keep in mind that I thought about just giving up and getting off this site but I decided that I`m not going to give in to that idea because I think this site[DS] has great potential to help everyone that needs help and I need all the help that I can get...lol...I`m going to get off of here now so be good to each other and write if you can ,talk to all of you later.M>
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well i (t) totally agree and just like you said if you haven\'t walk a mile in my shoes than you have noo idea how i or anyone feels. and i no if you walk in mine or Monte\'s lol no way could you possible make Even a 1/4 of the mile with out freak-in out..i don\'t know how many doc.\'s you have been monte but i saw my 29th about 3 weeks ago and this has been since 1996 and none and i mean none can or will do any thing for my problem in my back.. so that alone should tell whoever reads this that just doing crapp like yoga isn\'t gonna fix me in fact i have been told repeatedly not to even bend over to tie my own shoes for fear it will cut my spinal cord in half so hell ya i\'m gonna do the yoga , whatever i love ya monte and together we got support and hopefully the peeps out there will learn from this....
well m. you hit the nail on the head. if no one has been in our shoes they should not even be on this site. i don\'t even know why they would. guess there are just a few nuts out there..........debbie