I guess I should have started with the story of Brendy`s Dad back a few month`s ago.He had been in bad health for some time and we had taken him to the hospital E.R.,the E.R. doc.looked him over and came to the conclusion that he needed a pace maker or he could just go home and maybe die in his sleep[the doc.explained to him that it would beuseless to die this way].After some discousion he decided to get the pace maker.So they took him to Lubbock,Tx. and did the procedure.Month`s before Brendy and her Dad talker about getting him in an assisted living home here in town,and he agreed to it because he needed around the clock care because he had fallen at night and we are the first responders on hislife line if they can`t get him on the phone when he pushes the life line button.Any way we had it all set up for him to go into this assisted living home[it is in a really nice neighborhood where the average home cost is around 250,000-300,000]so after he has the pace maker installed we bring him to this home and he throw`s a fit and in less than a week he get`s kicked out for really BAD behaviour[found out that he called people names,threatened someone,caused some of the other resident`s emotional trama,and threw his walker at one of the care givers]All of this after he had gotten a few call`s from his woman friend`s[started to call her a lady but she is not a lady]Well anyhow she was telling him what a bad daughter Brendy is by not letting him die at home.And him being the selfish stubborn butt that he is,didn`t care enough about his own daughter and all the hard work that she did in order for him to live in luxury the last part of his life.He lives in a run down trailor house that need`s alot of work done on it.Well I`m getting off the subject,he is the kind of person that had kid`s but never did anything with them or for that matter with them.He wouldn`t even go to any of his kid`s graduation from High School.I just don`t understand him at all,and now he sit`s over at his house and feel`s sorry for himself,but if any of his kid`s try to do anything for him,he just treats them like they aren`t doing enough.And if they don`t do it because they are tired of his CRAP then they are the bad guy`s.You just can`t win either way you look at it.I`m getting off my soap box now.I hope that all of you have a great weekend.M.