I guess I kind of went off on one of the guy`s in the Brain Injury Community.He was saying that he thought that all of these thing`s,like when someone need`s help with a problem that we are just throwing a pitty party.I felt like telling him off.But I tried to explain that some of us still need help/suppport/or just some advice.When I read that he thought we should get back to leading a" NORMAL LIFE",that is when I lost it.Nothing is ever going to be "NORMAL" agian after you have had a TBI with permant brain damage.