WHY
I am trying to understand why the hell he's treating me like shit. He wants the divorce and wants me to move out as quickly as possible. Ok, I went to an attorney this past Tuesday. The divorce papers are ready to sign which we are going to do this Monday. We are in agreement in the settlement. There won't even be a ninety day waiting period for the divorce to go through. All I'm waiting to take care of before I move is filing and paying the taxes from this year. I have to make sure things are done properly before I can get the hell out of here which I'm goaling for the end of next month or early Febuary and he knows I have to do this because he's a complete idiot when it comes to finances ect. I signed for something his otw sent him through Fedex the other day and didn't even loose my cool. Why then is he treating me so badly? Oy, guess I have to do the best I can to make it through more of his manic bullshit until I move back to sunny, warm California where my best friends are waiting to welcome me back home.
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Lauren, I do not know the answer to your question. My ex wanted as well as filed for the divorce and she is so angry all of the time and treats me like some evil pariah! It is strange that THEY are the ones who want it and THEY are the ones most angry as well as most vindictive . . .
Lauren he is suck a JERK! Im thinking this crazy lady is gonna screw him over in the end..and he deserves it! I am glad it is going to move so fast for you! We got the same storm you did and I have been shoveling all day! My mom was in your area last night and she said it was freezing! Maybe getting back to sunny california will do you some good. I hope you can get away from him soon.
One day at a time Lauren. Soon you will be away from him and you can start your new peaceful life. I am sorry that he is angry, who knows what they think, I have quit trying to figure my stbx out. Stay warm girlfriend, big hugs to you.
Thanks guys. I really try not to let him get to me but he was impossible today. Yeh Redphish he\'s going to get really screwed by that woman and I won\'t be here to rescue him. You\'re right Anyse & Janee who the hell knows what goes on in their heads. I\'m sick and tired of wasting my time and energy trying to figure his crap out. Passive agressive behavior again right Anyse?
Hugs to all of you
Lauren, just stay focused on your ultimate goals. You will never understand him. He is of a different breed. Hugs as always!
Sounds like you\'re better off without him! There are plenty of fish in the sea. No one deserves to be abused~Take Care,Katie