did a budget, and guess what - wer're not actually left with 600 bucks a month to spend on our expense accounts - we're left with 91. So that's gonna be awesome to see how J handles that. Also awesome that he hasn't thought even once about this all year and in fact still insists that he's as good with money as me and that his drug habit hasn't caused us any financial difficculties at all. Even though we owe our folks a combined 2600.00 and just got 217.00 for overdraft fees from the bank. This morning I woke up and jokingly said 'you wanna get the kids ready today?' He actually fucking said 'well i usually help but not today.' He honest to god lives in another reality. Its stunning. That's like me saying 'well i usually make you breakfast but not today.' Cuz I DID make breakfast once that he ate some of. And once he did help with the kids after we woke up and I BEGGED him too. What a stupid, selfish, horrible motherfucker. He bitched about doing the dishes (it'd been over a week) - he got all depressed yesterday at all he had to do. Um you mean calling dept of ed like you were supposed to 6 fucking months ago? Or your regular chore of the dishes? Or calling banks like you volunteered to do? He then went on to actually bitch about having to make himself a sandwich. He just can't handle being an actual adult. And he'll never be able to. Never. He's a motherfucking child. And i hate him.