I know the My communities have all these wonderful post you can read and write, but nope not me... dang old computer will not let me answer post... can write em but not comment on em... it hates me this computer do...
it's only got a dozen so virises my son and his friend got downloaded into the system... windows are broken, and no one wants to update windows 95 and 98 any mo.. go figure ...
So since I got too much time on my hands dis moanin... and I'm achy and feelin meaner than a crocagator... yepp snappin at both ends... hehehehe... watch them teeth... yepp even doggy hidin from me dis moanin... not really, she so there always... snoozin near by under the covers on the couch while i compute... soon as i quit she be in my lap... or bed
So any ways... My mind is on my ex... the woman is not cool... she lies to my son.. and my friends and even herself... why... anyoldway.... first of all she promised my son DJ an allowance if he wrote her a letter each month... he's wrote her several and he aint got squat from her, not even a note to say hey how you... she came and visited him once in eight years... skipped out for two years on child support... oh yeah she had a whoppin 157.50 to pay each month... nope no way... two years she finially starts payin... and the county take it away aint life grand... Thanks cousin Bill... but that aint the problem, the problem is it's breakin DJ's heart his mom wont write or call or be a part of his life... she spends time with the other three kids... but nooooo not DJ.....I'd pay to see some body kick her butt... aint that bad... okay I'm teasin some little bit even... well maybe... I'd do it but I was raised different... wonder if there is any female butt kickers for hire.... lol... I'm teasin really, just a tad angry, not that bad tho... just feel for my son...
My mom and my grandma was my down fall... spent all my life trying to get their seal of approval, geeez... how stupid... but you know a kid boy or girl need their mom seal of approval... really .
I really wish I could understand what this woman is going thru... but I'm kinda busy with my own problems to tell the truth... i don't hate her just don't understand
my post for today...russ
it's only got a dozen so virises my son and his friend got downloaded into the system... windows are broken, and no one wants to update windows 95 and 98 any mo.. go figure ...
So since I got too much time on my hands dis moanin... and I'm achy and feelin meaner than a crocagator... yepp snappin at both ends... hehehehe... watch them teeth... yepp even doggy hidin from me dis moanin... not really, she so there always... snoozin near by under the covers on the couch while i compute... soon as i quit she be in my lap... or bed
So any ways... My mind is on my ex... the woman is not cool... she lies to my son.. and my friends and even herself... why... anyoldway.... first of all she promised my son DJ an allowance if he wrote her a letter each month... he's wrote her several and he aint got squat from her, not even a note to say hey how you... she came and visited him once in eight years... skipped out for two years on child support... oh yeah she had a whoppin 157.50 to pay each month... nope no way... two years she finially starts payin... and the county take it away aint life grand... Thanks cousin Bill... but that aint the problem, the problem is it's breakin DJ's heart his mom wont write or call or be a part of his life... she spends time with the other three kids... but nooooo not DJ.....I'd pay to see some body kick her butt... aint that bad... okay I'm teasin some little bit even... well maybe... I'd do it but I was raised different... wonder if there is any female butt kickers for hire.... lol... I'm teasin really, just a tad angry, not that bad tho... just feel for my son...
My mom and my grandma was my down fall... spent all my life trying to get their seal of approval, geeez... how stupid... but you know a kid boy or girl need their mom seal of approval... really .
I really wish I could understand what this woman is going thru... but I'm kinda busy with my own problems to tell the truth... i don't hate her just don't understand
my post for today...russ
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Russ things like you mentioned has it effects on kids.Every child needs to know he or she is loved and thought about(very important).
Iam sorry that your ex has been so thoughtless about DJ.But what goes around comes around and the best part of that is that you will be around to see it happen.
Your ex is hanging her ownself,I know it makes you mad.Because my first husband my childrens dad ducked out on child support for our four children.I had alot of pent up anger inside over that but eventualy he paid a dear price.
Children need approval its part of knowing their loved.
Well anyway Iam not trying to act like some counselor just a friend lending a shoulder.Christmas is in the heart its not within a tree or presents.You can celebrate it anyway you wish if any at all.
Have a gentle peaceful night and remember within a few more days christmas too shall pass.
Hugs!!
Your friend Rachel