Good Moaning Friends, Thanks for the hugs,the words of incouragement, and the pictures. Me ex will be up tommorrow. Deep down I really don't care. I would love to bury the hatchet so to speak. Closure would be nice. I have no Idea how too. I'm not worried about myself, untill she opens her mouth. On our day in court, She stood there in her black short dress with hickeys all over her neck. The Judge laughed at her. I was kind of numb, this was really happening, 25 years shot to hell. But the comical side was still way too much to bare. My ex kissed my cheek and thanked me for cutting her loose, she did seem happy...Now I wondering seven years later...WHAT THE HEY HAPPENED? Everytime I'm around this woman she wants a piece of my hide. It ain't funny no more. ME? I hate being lied about. Falsely accused of things I didn't do. Really chaps my hide Ya Know. Guess cause as a child I was always getting the crapp beat out of me because my brother said! I'm just sharing these thought with you because, I need to talk to someone about them, My side of the pancake goes like this. I gave her the House, the kid, the bank account...lol, ok back to life. She took off and abandon our son. NOW that Really CHAPPED my hide. I'm overprotective of my kids I never had a mom, didn't want our son to suffer that either. At seven my son ask me not to divorce his mom. I wish I had known not to make that kind of promise, guess that's what really breaks my heart. I broke it cause she wanted it. My son don't hold it against me. He probably don't even remember. I remember, and it's high time I forgave myself...Thanks friends, time for heeping firey coals. Coals of kindness. From now on I'm gonna keep my mouth shut no matter what she says. years ago in a chatroom my disable friends had a saying, don't sweat the small stuff, don't pet the sweaty stuff... don't judge men or women, or a race of people by what only a few will do.