It's been awhile since i've been on DS. My computor has been on the blitz.  I read alot of stuff different people had to say before adding to my journal.  Basically it's all the same. People cheat and they do it on purpose and they don't give a shit about the people who love them. They don't think how it will affect the wife or husband. or the children. my husband started up the affair 3 different times with the same woman.  All the while asking that I trust him. that he loved me. Trust me. I love you I will ;never do that to you again.  We got new cells. planned new jobs, cut off the house phone, and he proposed to me , complete with ring, to renew our vows.  then, he gave her his new cell #, told her the ring meant nothing, it was just to keep me from taking our child and leaving and the proposal was to shut me up. and the job, if he got it? He told her she could meet him in another town and stay with him. SHE told me all of this.  well, we are still together and as far as I know She is history for good.  He acts like he is sincerely sorry. He also denied the things she said. Me, I dont know What to believe.But I will try this last time. I already know that if it happens again that broken or not , I will divorce.  By readiing what most people write, I guess I should leave now.  But I'll wait .  I still think we're worth saving.