my husband started off "talking" to this girl at work, they got close and started calling each other. I got one cell bill on accident and there was 47 calls to her in one day. Too many to count in the billing cycle. I blew up! HE said it was only "talk". It stopped for about 2 mos. Then I found out they were having an affair, AGAIN. He cried and said it wouldn't happen again. They were having an affair the first time and I knew it in my heart. By Christmas,"the second time", Iknew they were back together. I asked him what he got her for x-mas. He denied it. I got it out of him in Jan. He bought her sheets and a necklace like MY necklace. They broke up. She gave them back! They were having PHONE SEX, and physical sex. They started calling and having phone sex again by March. Now he wants another chance. Says he will NEVER hurt me again. I live it over and over EVERY day. What was she like in bed? What the hell was phone sex like? How did Her body look? I don't want him to see me without clothes anymore. I feel so ugly. So old. She is lots younger than me.Matter of fact, I could be her mother!~