one day at a time. strong some days,scared some days. I love my husband so much. too much. I feel that if I could understand why he cheated, I could deal with it much better. One thing I do know is that he had no right to. If anyone had a RIGHT to, it was me! I just don't believe in it. Tomorrow night he will go to work and he will most likely see her.HE says it'll be o.k. He won't talk to her. Yea right! Just like all the other times. He says it's me he wants, but after the 3rd time, I find it hard to believe. I've lost faith in him and the so called "friends" I had. because they all knew what he was doing. I was the LAST to know. It's hard to look at these people. Hard to look at her too.
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Why is it that a man (or woman) can cheat on their spouse and still come home and act like nothing\'s going on? Lie like there\'s no tomorrow and still expect you to be there for THEM?
thats alot your going thru, i feel no one should cheat on their spouse. i\'m not sure if it would help to understand why or not. real friends should have told you. i\'m here when ya need a friend, Amy
Oh hon, I am so sorry to hear that situation. Have the two of you sought marriage counseling? Or at least therapy for yourself? You need to love and build yourself up here. You are a valuable, loving soul. Mary
We have not had counseling. I wanted to. I NEED it. Ican\'t understand why he did this. He promised to get us help but then would not. I found out later that it was because he wasn\'t ready to give her up. I can\'t get past it. I have noone to talk to. Until now.