Friday, February 29, 2008
Surprise!!!!! My kids called me wednesday. The first time in a long time that they have done so. It was comforting to talk to them again. I am getting closer to having my visitation with my kids again. I am a bit suprised that she let them call me. She has not let them tallk to me since new years day!!! I do have a new girlfriend. I have been out dating alot of different woman but this one has my keen interest. I am not sure if this is a healthy thing for me or not but it has been awhile since I have had a person in my life who supports me and likes for me to talk to her all the time. I would be telling an untruth if I am said Iwas not scared. I am a bit weary, but coming out of what I have been through it is understandible. I have learned to take my time and not to push anything. Time is a precious gift and it is there for a reason. I am proceeding slow and cautiously for now. With my family life and social life getting on all I can hope for is a break from the storms that tend to put us back a few steps.
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Sounds like things are starting to fall in place. Just follow your instincts and next thing you know you will be having a picnic in the hot Texas heat.
I am so happy for you!! What wonderful news!! Your kids will onl benefit by having both parents loving and supporting them through life. I hope that your ex comes along and realizes that! As for the girlfriend, just take things slowly and pray as you go, and so not forget to enjoy the relationship as it develops!!
I agree. Just take your time. If it feels right, you\'ll know.
And I\'m soooo glad you got to talk to your kids. I don\'t understand a parent keeping the kids away from the other parent except for extreme circumstances. I hope to be hearing from you soon that you had a wonderful time WITH them. You and the kids deserve it!