My daughter had a breakdown at  a ballgame,, she chose to not follow instuctions and then caused a big mess with everyone... She manage to get kicked out of school and She will go back Thursday,,, We have a plan in place for her the school is really good with working with her and her dx. but We are not going to baby the mess and her,, My daughter does have a dxx of Bipolar adhd and aspergers,, but she is not stupid.. she knows right from wrong, however once she is being defiant and you try to get her through that then that is when things start falling apart.. so it goes from bad to worse, she is capable of doing the right thing,, anyway she is going back and things may not be the way she wants them for awhile but it is what it is and she will will be allright.. the school wants her in their the school they want her to suceed and they work very hard for her... I am thankful for that so much,,, they see her positive strengths.. I work in Education and I just came from a meeting that a teacher had nothing good to say about her class.. she is a rigid teacher who spends more time telling them what is wrong with them then sharing with them what is good about them,, then she wonders why she has so many behaviorss on her hand,,, gee lady wake up... I am glad my daughter never had her,,, My daughter is a blessing and I have to sometimes look for those blessings but they are there,,,, each child has them,,