You have to forgive your self for the mistakes you have made. You are only human. We all have made countless mistake one way or another. I have found out that is I can learn something from that mistake then maybe it was for a reason. It is said in the 12 step rooms that making the same mistake over and over expecting different results is just insanity:) Big Hug you seem like you need one.
Thank you PJ, for your advice. I do need to forgive myself and it is a concious battle everyday. It probably stems from my childhood, but it has been getting worsr throughout the years of drinking. I have made an appointment with a psychologist to work on my self esteem issues, and i am going to try to go to an aa meeting later on this week.Hopefully i eventually do learn what i\'m supposed to from my mistakes. I will take it a day at a time.
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You have to forgive your self for the mistakes you have made. You are only human. We all have made countless mistake one way or another. I have found out that is I can learn something from that mistake then maybe it was for a reason. It is said in the 12 step rooms that making the same mistake over and over expecting different results is just insanity:) Big Hug you seem like you need one.
Thank you PJ, for your advice. I do need to forgive myself and it is a concious battle everyday. It probably stems from my childhood, but it has been getting worsr throughout the years of drinking. I have made an appointment with a psychologist to work on my self esteem issues, and i am going to try to go to an aa meeting later on this week.Hopefully i eventually do learn what i\'m supposed to from my mistakes. I will take it a day at a time.