1/11/2015 I Tried, I Failed, I Made A Fool Out Of Myself
At least I tried, instead of backing away.
Hubby had his lunch party today for the car club & to introduce his new girlfriend. I thought I was strong enough. I chickened out half way through the car club video for 2014 & just left without saying goodbye to everyone. It's not my place to be in his house with his new woman. Someone told him I left, he called me on the cell & I didn't answer. He left the party & followed me. He found me at a local gas station pumping gas & got out to ask why I left. I was in tears & told him I felt as if I didn't fit in (the car club chairperson wouldn't even "friend" me on facebook- not that facebook is anything of consequence anyhow...) & now it's his girlfriend's time to get to know the club. I don't belong. He hugged me & told me I was wrong. I repeated that I felt out of place & cannot be around anymore. He asked me to let him know when I'm moving.
So, yeah, I made a fool out of myself.
Hubby had his lunch party today for the car club & to introduce his new girlfriend. I thought I was strong enough. I chickened out half way through the car club video for 2014 & just left without saying goodbye to everyone. It's not my place to be in his house with his new woman. Someone told him I left, he called me on the cell & I didn't answer. He left the party & followed me. He found me at a local gas station pumping gas & got out to ask why I left. I was in tears & told him I felt as if I didn't fit in (the car club chairperson wouldn't even "friend" me on facebook- not that facebook is anything of consequence anyhow...) & now it's his girlfriend's time to get to know the club. I don't belong. He hugged me & told me I was wrong. I repeated that I felt out of place & cannot be around anymore. He asked me to let him know when I'm moving.
So, yeah, I made a fool out of myself.
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Hey friend......No you didn\'t ! You are human and you acted completely the way a normal loving ex-wife would ! I give you credit for even going in the first place ! By leaving when you did you actually saved yourself from making a fool of yourself ! Can you imagine if you cried there instead of later ?
As for Facebook friends, if I had a dollar for all the people I ask to be my friend and DON\'T .......I\'d be rich :-)
Take a deep breath, and give yourself a break. Eat some chocolate !!!
BEE-DOH ((((HUGS))) Patricia :-)
I agree with Patricia. No you didn\'t.I am glad you left when you did.
Yes chocolate might help
I agree with Patricia too. You did not make a fool of yourself hon. Cheer up my dear sweet friend. Do something to lift your spirits. Love ya girl.
No way did you make a fool of yourself. You were in a very awkward situation. I would have left too. Regardless of why you are divorcing your hubby, he was still part of your life for a long time, as were the activities you did together. I hate feeling like the third wheel much less in that situation.