Young Widows Community Group
This is a group for people who lost there partners at a young age. Come here for support and to offer encouragement to other people who have lost their partners.
Don't know what to do? It just seems lately that everything I do is not good enough. Thought that time would make it better but, it seemed to get better then go worst then before. Its like I take 2 steps forward and then 10 back!
nicholasm
thats how i feel, i was doing well for a day then crashed for 3 days
danos
It has been 3 and 1/2 years and it always seems like when things seem to go right then I take about 5 steps back!
nicholasm
has timed helped at all? i hear the waves of grieve will lessen in some ways, its only been 6 weeks for me
danos
Not going to lie there are days that are great but then they have the horrible ones! ! Even though I think of my husband everyday the pain isn't there as bad! But the there are days like it was the day it happened! I don't think it lessen I think we just learn how to deal with it and the feeling the we have from the grief!
nicholasm
still fills me with hope. one of the hardest parts for me is the loss of love. no one on earth is in love with me. its been along time sense that was true, im kinda worried ill date to early as im desperate for affection.
danos
I understand where you are coming from! I was with my husband for 13 years and married 8 of them! There are many that take to dating soon and some not! You just do what you think is best for you to do! Keep your head up and think as positive as you can in the hardest of times!
nicholasm
married my wife in 2009 on the 13th anno of me asking her out when i was 15. I dont see myself seriously dating anyone soon. not sure im the friends with benefits or one night stand kind of guy
danos
That is like me I am not the friend with benefit or one night stand type of woman either! So I know where you are coming from there!
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