What were you trying - what was the Wham? I'm guessing you keep trying because there is something you want to achieve - and the way to do it is to keep trying. My sound trite but it's true...what doesn't kill us makes us stronger. Keep trying - even if there's a wham sometimes.

MY LIFE IS SO CONFUSING IT,S HARD TO KNOW WHAT TO DO OR NOT DO I AGREE WITH U

I agree. Life is so confusing. You feel the need to try but when it goes wrong you feel bad and sorry u bothered. I wish I knew how to help u

TY

Carol.. are you referring to your Partner??

YES Simone

that is kinda what I thought.. and sometimes you can try all you want and not get anywhere.. it is up to you to find the peace in your mind.. I am learning all this now.. yep at the ripe age at 44 .. lol.. and if it does not work between you two.. get out of there.. or find a way to just live in peace without being bothered.. but pleasing.. nope .. if it is not both ways.. I would not try .. I was in one of those with my first husband.. and that did not work.. the more i tried .. well ya know the rest.. lol..

UR RIGHT THE MORE U TRIED IT GETS WORSE OR STAYS THE SAME. ME I RATHER NOT BE BOTHER WITH STUPID STUFF GETTING TO OLD .

Mycat remember I always here for you my friend. Lots of hugs and understand.

you need to opt ..if you want or do not want drama in your life.. I had to learn that fast over the last year.. and I am opting out of Drama.. Life is just to short.. :)

I AGREE WITH U LIFE IS SHORT AND I DON,T NEED DRAMA

THANKS DEZNA.