Hi. I'm new here and realized that there isn't a support group for sexless marriages. It's much different than celibacy. I've been skinny, I've been chubby, long hair, short hair, you name it. I've been referred to as a very attractive women, but my husband NEVER wants to have sex. And the once a year obligatory sex is always combined with a porn dvd. I know he masturbates and I can't compete with a strong fist. The last several times we have had sex (OVER THE LAST 2 YEARS), he hasn't had an orgasm. We have a king bed and never touch each other but he writes and says such loving things. I feel unattractive and undesirable and also know that many men would jump at the chance to have sex with me. What's wrong with my husband???? I've broached the subject and he says, "We will" which never happens. I don't initiate sex and maybe I should.
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