my bf (bn together 3 years) and I try to watch porno together and sometimes we get toys for each other. anyone else do that with their sig other?
and I say TRY because the men in them are just so damn ugly! why is that?? sometimes the girls aren't that good lookin either and even worse lookin down there.... but c'mon! if we are supposed to get some kind of "entertainment" out of the thing the people SHOULD look at least half way ok! ...right?
i mean i do enjoy it and more times it's ME that suggests we watch em together, but sometimes the guys are so ass ugly in em i just can't get turned on. don't get me wrong, MY man is THE HOTTEST man on the planet in my opinion and i 'm not tryin to lust over another guy or anything. but maybe that's why when i see the guys on the pornos i wanna vomit.
im laughin so hard right now i cant even think straight. omg that is hilarious I cant get my man to watch porno he is too shy to watch it with me but yes most of the men are ugly and the women too.
I don't understand watching it at all, if your mate isn't enough for a person, why are they with them? It was very insulting to me when my mate watched it. We are now divorced. It made him NOT satisfied with me and led him to look to "greener" pastures. He also wanted to start trying some of the disgusting things he would see on them.....they were very hard core.
Gee wiz, Ive never watched porn. I like to see the real thing! Golly i havent seen much yet! i guess im not the right style. You know 5'5", 98 pounds, blue big eyes, blonde hair, etc. im more of a normal gal.Rugged.
trust me, my man IS enough for me lol! but i like to keep things a bit spicy between us, keeps things fun, you know what i mean? and i don't watch the pornos to get hot for the people in em, and either does he, but some of the good pornos get us turned on a bit by how much they seem to be enjoying it.
i would like to order some instructional videos for better sex, tho. but he disagrees. i'm ordering them anyways.
I think porn can be a good tool in the bedroom. It's just like "bluesun" said, Spice things up a bit.
Bluesun, it really does help to have the good looking ones, ...just buy the ones that are appealing to you. You buy them, and I bet you'll like them better
Personally, I haven't seen a porn film in some time.
I have watched porn with my husband. But I have never liked it. Not where my husband spices things up for us by his self. No toys needed there!!! If you need spice in the bedroom get the book The Ultimate Book Of Sex And read it. There alot of fun ways to spice up your sex life in there( forplay,foreplay foreplay!!) without the porno's Get into eachother insted of the BOOB tube!!!!
It depends what style of porn, myself I like watching it by myself, my husband likes it that way also.
It is a good prep before bedtime, especially for men who grew up with porno, somehow it changes
the way they see a live female, oppose to a playboy magazine centerfold. Let's face it, it becomes
difficult for a man to get turned on, by the "not-so-perfect-live-female." So there is a price to pay in the long
run. Everything in moderation is the key, however porno and masturbation seems to be the answer in a
NO LOVE marriage, or Single Life.
we to watch it together, and we both enjoy it everytime, we don't like the ones where the man is so demanding and i like it when the man is grunting or says short lil things. I do agree that some of the actors are butt ugly but I don't watch the faces as much then. In the end we are both satisfied. It works if ya work it.
I AGREE ... SOME MEN ARE RUINED FOR LIFE BECAUSE OF MAGAZINES AND PORNO ... THE AVERAGE WOMAN DOSEN'T MEASURE UP TO THESE TYPES OF WOMEN ...... SOME MEN NOW NEED THIS TYPE OF STIMULANT TO GET TURNED ON WITH THEIR MATES, NOT FAIR TO THEIR PARTNERS, WHO NOW FEEL INADEQUATE AS WOMEN .... I PERSONALLY THINK THAT THE EXPLOITATION OF WOMEN IS WHAT RUINED ALOT OF RELATIONSHIPS AS A WHOLE ....... MORE AND MORE WOMEN TODAY ARE FREE WITH THEIR SEXUALITY AND FLAUNT THEIR WARES ... THIS MAKING IT DIFFICULT FOR THE NICE, DECENT, WHOLESOME WOMEN TO FIND, NICE DECENT, WHOLESOME MEN .....
I used to think that porno was okay but I noticed that it changed the way my husband acted towards me. He used to be more romantic and treated me like I was special, but after he started watching porn he was alot more aggressive and demanding sexually.
For me romance and feeling loved turns me on, it's gotten to the point that I don't even like having sex anymore.
i would like to order some instructional videos for better sex, tho. but he disagrees. i'm ordering them anyways.
Bluesun, it really does help to have the good looking ones, ...just buy the ones that are appealing to you. You buy them, and I bet you'll like them better
Personally, I haven't seen a porn film in some time.
HAVE FUN !
It is a good prep before bedtime, especially for men who grew up with porno, somehow it changes
the way they see a live female, oppose to a playboy magazine centerfold. Let's face it, it becomes
difficult for a man to get turned on, by the "not-so-perfect-live-female." So there is a price to pay in the long
run. Everything in moderation is the key, however porno and masturbation seems to be the answer in a
NO LOVE marriage, or Single Life.
a loveless marriage? that's so sad.... i'd be SOOO depressed! i'd have to divorce... couldn't live with a man like that.
For me romance and feeling loved turns me on, it's gotten to the point that I don't even like having sex anymore.