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Bree44
Bree44
Okay, I feel it's save to talk about this here, because I don't have to deal with any guys making lewd remarks or offering unwanted "assistance".

I've been single for over 2 months now, so all sexual activity has ended for me and I'm ready to pull my hair out! I've always been a very sexual person, but I don't like having sex with someone I'm not romantically involved with. So going out and finding a stud for the night or taking some of my guy friends up on their "offers" is kinda out of the question.

I don't kno what to do about this. I'm having very vivid dreams nearly every night, which, while enjoyable, only add to my frustration. I find myself practically drooling over actors on the tv. I watched a bad movie twice yesterday just because the lead actor was gorgeous and you see him shirtless often!

I miss sex! Now I remember why I disliked being single before! I'm assuming at least some of you ladies kno where I'm coming from. Any tips on how to keep cool?
deleted_user
deleted_user
find a new friend that you could be able to have sex with, without strings and the potential demise of a friendship. other than that, toys and masturbation can release some tension and you brobably already do that, but if you dont then give it a try. thats all the advise i know of.
Bree44
Bree44
lol thanks for the advice. I'm already a fan of toys and masturbation, but all it does is take the edge off and lately it hasn't really been doing that either... oh well... As for making a new "friend", because of my living arrangements (I recently had to move back in with my parents and they live in the middle of nowhere) thats sorta impossible.

I kinda figured that that'd be the only suggestion offered, but I asked anyway. I think this is just gonna be something I gotta wait out...
deleted_user
deleted_user
hon, i'm feeling your pain. my husband is overseas with the military..for a YEAR! batteries are my new best friend. I read your post, maybe you could shop for a new style of toy, something you don't have already? other than that, all I know to suggest is a cold shower...it helps me sometimes
Bree44
Bree44
Oh wow, my sympathies to you lost. Having to wait a year until your hubby gets home to get frisky again? Damn that sucks! at least I have the possibility, even if it's a very very small one, of meeting someone new.

I'm actually dealing with the whole issue better now. When I first wrote this post I was getting my period and you know how riled up us girls get during that time! The longest I've ever gone without sex since first having it was 2 years, so I know I can survive this lol. What's a couple of months in comparison?