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Annery 02/28/2010

I am 28 year old lady. I have been living with lympedema. This is a condition that results when the lymp system did not develop properly at birth. The signs of swelling are visible in early teen years. I have been living with this condition for the past 13 years now. At times i feel frustated, depressed, lonely. I go through alot of emotions that i honestly do not know how to deal with. I try to but most times i do not win. This conditions has affected my self-confidence as woman i dont feel good enough. since my boyfriend broke up with me 3 years ago , i have never dated again. I am so scared my feelings will be hurt again. I am so fragile at the moment. At the age that i am most of my friends and sisters have already started a family or they are in a stable relationship. This condition is progressive and it comes with pain and depression. I cannot dress up like other people. I am so scared that no one will ever love me. And if i ever get someone who loves me , how do i tell them that i have such a problem, will they ever understand. I have this void, i am so lonely right one. If anyone has idea on how i can deal with my emotions and find love again?

Thank you

HopeNHim 03/03/2010

Hi Annery,

I would put this all in God's hands. He knows what your needs are in love and emotions. He knew about what has gone in your life. He knows what the future beholds for you. This is how I found my husband with out the emotional roller coasters that relationships can give us when do the so called worldly thing called dating and hunting for a husband.

Have you prayed about this?

I will pray for you in this area to find peace in Him about this.

You want to chat about this, I am here.

Hope

iheartmzb 03/04/2010

2 different questions. When you find the right one the issue will not be an issue. I saw Totie Fields on Johnny Carson yrs ago, she was a comedian heavy and diabetic. It was taking its toll and she had gone into the hospital for surgury to amputate a leg. She told of waking up to see her husband in her room after the surgury. She looked at her surgical site and began to cry. She asked her husband how he would ever love her after this and she said he looked at her and told her "I didn't fall in love with your leg." That's how you know you have the right one. As for how to move past the break up so you can get on with your life and find that relationship that will be the right one for you. I'm afraid I haven't figured that one out yet having been through a bad experience myself. It is very hard to believe and trust and let yourself love and be loved again. But they say you have to kiss a few frogs to find a prince.

Annery 03/05/2010

Thanks for listening , i appreciate. May be i am too hard on myself. I will pray to God for a peace of mind and to show me someone who will understands.

Stay blessed.

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