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mel40 01/17/2016

Ch 2 and I broke up. It hurts. Another loss. This is going to take awhile. I don't know if I'll ever get back up this time. I can't express how deeply it hurts. And it's at this point that I'm afraid to ever love again. Whole heartedly, selflessly, and to have hope. I'm not made to endure. I'm not made for pain. Today will be a day to take care of me. Cry and cry some more. Pray and listen and know that God is with me and hurting too. I wish He would take the pain away.

letmehelpyou 01/17/2016

Whoa, mel, what happened? PM me if you want a shoulder to cry on. Take care of yourself, be gentle to yourself. Remember you have hit some rough spots with this gentleman in the past. Pray and deliberate. YOU are infinitely lovable and infinitely strong. Let us know how we can help.

Hugs,
Val

gerald222 01/17/2016

I truly am sorry. Sending a Big Canadian hug your way. Your in my prayers. You will rise up again even stronger but need time to process this loss. Nurture and be gentle on yourself. Gerry

avm99 01/17/2016

Mel, are you sure this is the end of the relationship? I remember all your previous posts and remember how ecstatic you were when you got engaged. You were the success story that inspired me not to give up on love. I thought you are one of the few lucky ones to find a success story with online dating.
I hope things work out for you. God is with you.

Antonella

JesusisOurSaviour 01/17/2016

Oh Mel,
I'm so sorry you're going through this pain of losing again. God will comfort you, He knows how caring and loving your heart is. Please take care today, be gentle and kind to yourself.....I know you will prevail,
Loves Sandra

Veronica77 01/17/2016

I am so sorry. God will carry you through. I have found that during some of my trials. (((Big hug)))

jewells1 01/17/2016

I am sorry Mel.

cgriff4ever 01/17/2016

Oh mel I am so sorry, I have have always said, everthing happens for a reason, and we may not know why, or undestand why orr even like it, but it happens regardless. Time to just take for yourself, cry, and just be gentle to yourself, you deserve it. I will be praying for you sweet mel. Much love, and big hugs carla

rebl3157 01/17/2016

So sorry Mel. You're tough and you will come back from this. You are in my prayers!
Rachel

SandyV1 01/18/2016

I'm really sorry Mel

Shrn 01/18/2016

On Mel, my heart aches for you. I can't understand why things happen like this, but lay yourself in the Lord's arms and let them comfort you until you can stand up again. Sharon

katrina777 01/18/2016

I am so sorry Mel that this is happening to you. Allow God to carry you through this until you can stand alone again.
Hugs Katrina

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