i met him when I was 29 now I am 32 and free. He was oh sooo charming, bringing me to work early in morning, flowers after work, cooking dinner all the time. I had the best 20’s ever and was ready to settle down. In moved in with me after one month of dating. I was blind. He told me he got rapped when he was younger, his dad was beating him and his mom never there for him. So of course i felt bad for him. I listen to him. I never caught him cheating but i did caught him talking to girls on facebook, when i asked who these girls were he said to me. Ohh they are my best friends. I was umm really? Ive never heard of them. I let it passed but knew it was wrong. He lied 99% of the time and he hated me for always caught him. He was talking about me to these girls saying that im forcing him to have a baby right now? I did tell him i was to start a family when the time is right. Not asap?! He got me a dog cauz he knew i would love him for that and it was a way for him to manipulate me. He was telling me stories that never made sense and i knew it. He never had a credit card or a driver license. Red flags right there.. i let that passed. He finally moved out cauz he never had money, he never was able to stay at a job for more than 6months. We were still in contact but it was never the same. We broke up. He was msg me still and i was answering cauz you know i was trying to be nice.. we started seeing each other recently after 9months of not seeing each other. I still had feelings for him but i dont think i was still in love with him. And so goes the lies again. The weirdest stories about his friends. His ex. Etc.. he was less and less present. (Met a new girl a work) and i wasnt even really mad about it. I told him that this is it i cant help him anymore he needs to seek help he told me he has personality disorder. I was shocked that he told me that. And that no one understands him blabla. And i told him good luck. And i never got news and never wrote to him. And just 3 weeks ago i realized that he is a narcissist. And it blows my mind. I know he will contact me eventually but on my side im done. He is blocked and im kinda just mad at myself to aloud him for coming back in my life. And i feel bad for the new girl. She is youger  and full of life. But for my part I wasnt sutpid. I knew something was wrong with this guy. And now im done. And reading about it is the best thing that ever happened to me. I will get my awesome life back and no need to always take care of him ever again.