Victims of Psychopaths Community Group
Is he or she a sociopath or psychopath? Think we're only talking about serial killers here? Psychopaths, sociopaths and even narcissists come in every walk of life, every career level, and every socio-economic category.
My former best friend (with benefits) recently took back his ex wife (they have been divorced since Nov 2011, separated since Feb 2010). She is a total narsisistic person. She blames everyone for her faults and even claimed that stealing money from the bank she worked at was a total "misunderstanding". Her affair while she was married was nothing but a "slip up" (even though she did it multiple times with the same person), and has cheated on the 2 guys she was engaged to after that. Now my former bfwb takes her back and listens to her lies. She is even telling multiple lies about me. Im so over this!!! It seems like she has this "power" over everyone that every man loves and wants her and everyone outside of that believes every word that comes out of her mouth. I dont know what to do anymore. How do you deal with a person like this? I havent contacted any of them for over a month but i keep hearing about the lies she is telling about ME. I know i shouldnt listen but i want to know what has been said because it could be damaging to my employment and my life in general. Any advise?
She's trying to cut off communication between you and your friend-that's a common trait of their disorder, they want their victim isolated so they manipulate it with no interfere of a loving friend.
Your former best friend has either to contact a therapist dealing with this kind of disorder, or be informed by exclusive sites through internet and more over participating in forums dealing with this.
Good luck!