Victims of Psychopaths Community Group
Is he or she a sociopath or psychopath? Think we're only talking about serial killers here? Psychopaths, sociopaths and even narcissists come in every walk of life, every career level, and every socio-economic category.
I just came back from a two day drive to, and another two day drive back from the Courthouse for the annulement of my marriage. My conclusion is:
1. My attorney is an opportunist that has an expensive office IN FRONT of the Courthouse and preys on people who are caught in an unexpected legal situation, have no time to search for a lawyer and have to act fast (people like me, who have to leave town). She's incompetent, had never dealt with serious fraud and has no knowledge of psychopathy criminology. We NEED a directory of legal support for victims of psychopath crime
2. The judge was a retard. She "forgot" that incarcerated people need to be brought in from jail through special channels and paperwork. Basically, I drove two days and had to have my hearing re-scheduled because the judge didn't do her homework, didn't understand that this type of criminal doesn't have a residence, was negligent and basically looked like a little girl. I had a very harsh conversation with my attorney, who returned the following day with our agreed 20 questions examination of ME to establish fraud and theft. For god's sake... I was on my right to be arrogant when I said I went to school for five years to get my Ph.D. and if I "forgot" something I had to return a couple of hundred thousand dollars grants in research, and I had no idea where she and her stupid judge had gotten their degree.
All in all: we NEED service for:
- victims of psychopath crime. It is a special class, they have over 200% higher chances of better treatment by justice because they manipulate law enforcement agents and I saw how badly prepared these people are
- parents of psychopaths: a mother posted this here. For me, it was the most serious post in this forum. Most people didn't even pay attention.
- legal advice for psychopaths in the workplace
- education for fraud in business caused by psychopaths
I know how I am reconstructing my life. The chief person was one attorney who understood he could help me by offering to build a plan with me. Victims of "hard-core" psychopaths have their whole life shaken and need help - LEGAL help, financial help, etc.
Unlike most of you think, there are no special types of psychopath victims because psychopaths come in all shapes and forms (of behavior). The most damaging are the ones who target the highest prizes... Or the signature killers. But then we don't need a forum for their victims, do we? They are dead...
1. My attorney is an opportunist that has an expensive office IN FRONT of the Courthouse and preys on people who are caught in an unexpected legal situation, have no time to search for a lawyer and have to act fast (people like me, who have to leave town). She's incompetent, had never dealt with serious fraud and has no knowledge of psychopathy criminology. We NEED a directory of legal support for victims of psychopath crime
2. The judge was a retard. She "forgot" that incarcerated people need to be brought in from jail through special channels and paperwork. Basically, I drove two days and had to have my hearing re-scheduled because the judge didn't do her homework, didn't understand that this type of criminal doesn't have a residence, was negligent and basically looked like a little girl. I had a very harsh conversation with my attorney, who returned the following day with our agreed 20 questions examination of ME to establish fraud and theft. For god's sake... I was on my right to be arrogant when I said I went to school for five years to get my Ph.D. and if I "forgot" something I had to return a couple of hundred thousand dollars grants in research, and I had no idea where she and her stupid judge had gotten their degree.
All in all: we NEED service for:
- victims of psychopath crime. It is a special class, they have over 200% higher chances of better treatment by justice because they manipulate law enforcement agents and I saw how badly prepared these people are
- parents of psychopaths: a mother posted this here. For me, it was the most serious post in this forum. Most people didn't even pay attention.
- legal advice for psychopaths in the workplace
- education for fraud in business caused by psychopaths
I know how I am reconstructing my life. The chief person was one attorney who understood he could help me by offering to build a plan with me. Victims of "hard-core" psychopaths have their whole life shaken and need help - LEGAL help, financial help, etc.
Unlike most of you think, there are no special types of psychopath victims because psychopaths come in all shapes and forms (of behavior). The most damaging are the ones who target the highest prizes... Or the signature killers. But then we don't need a forum for their victims, do we? They are dead...
I did want to say, however, the mother of a psychopath specifically asked other mothers of psychopaths to respond to her. I guess there are few of such people on this forum. I think there have been in the past. People come and go. This is not the only forum for victims of psychopaths and, if this one did not help her much, I hope she found a better forum for her.
This one is active: https://www.psychopathfree.com/forum.php
This one is semi-dead: http://www.psychopath-research.com/forum/ubbthreads.php/forum_summary
This one is dead: http://www.aftermath-surviving-psychopathy.org/forum/
All the others died.
The mother of the psychopath needed help. I provided the information I had. I can offer research, which I do. I honestly think a lot of DX talk is damaging to other victims: this is not a responsible behavior. Who actually has a degree in criminal psychology to offer these DXs? My daughter is a psychologist from a good university. She thinks all this is 100% bullshit.
Observe: I don't DX the person who targetted me nor whatever "weird boyfriends" I might have had in the past. All men and women who have multiple partners have had their share of "weird people".
I came to this group because the person who targeted me is a textbook Con Artist and these are always, by definition, psychopaths.
People are damaged. In general. That doesn't give us free pass to go on DXing everyone around. Also, whoever has had more than 50% of their relationships with one specific type of mental illness patient, like codependents to, needs to look at themselves much more than on the perpetrators.
We need real help: organizations for legal support, for psychiatric support, etc. And this is not available. I have searched everywhere.
There are many more forums than you cited. I don't recall their names right now, but I have visited many. Maybe we have to find the one that is right for us, or start a new one, if we can't find one that is a good fit.
Actually, all I found here were role models. The focus is on the psycho and who had the worst psycho, who was the prettiest and not how to reconstruct a life that was destroyed by crime. That was my problem: I didn't find any support here for that.
There have been many posters who talk about rebuilding their lives. There are different mixes at different times. Currently, members discuss this aspect in their journals more.
One thing we do not like to see here is judgment of other victims.
I hope you find a forum that meets your needs.