Well I feel so stupid. My sociopath called and asked me if I needed a ride and lo and behold I accepted. I needed to get a tv out of pawn and I could have waited but I hate having anything in a pawn shop. We talked on the way up there and I asked him if he had my key and he said he gave it back to me. Well I know for sure he didn't. Then he asked me if I needed to go anyplace else and I said yes, so the place I needed to go was right up the street and for some reason he just kept driving around for like two hours. So we get back and I ask him if he can fix the cord on my sewing machine and I will give him 25.00 and he said yes, so he starts to get the cord and I start looking around my apartment and i start seeing things out of place. Someone had been in my apartment and had gone through everything. Very good job so whoever was in knew how to put things back in place, the work of a criminal that had done it before, but i am a neat freak and i noticed. I told him and before he could fix the machine i made him leave. He was the only person that could have given the key to someone and i freaked. So he left but he made sure he took the cord to my machine and a cd from Netflix. So i was set up. I had just gotten a loan and i made sure i put the money in my purse before i left the apt. I was very scared at first but have calmed down because he told me that when he plays he plays to win. Sometimes i wonder if i will make it through this. My counselor comes tomorrow and i will tell her. I need to move and i will talk to her about it to because the new woman he is seeing is the neice of the lady downstairs and there family lives right by me in two different apts. They can see my apt door from theirs. So i was set up and i know now that he will try and get revenge on me. He told me he was thinking of leaving town. I wont make this mistake again. No Contact ever because i feel i am in danger now. I am sure the group has gone through all these things and its very scary. I have to make some decisions now on what i need to do. What a mess. I know i should not have answered the phone or thought that all i have been through these last three years was enough to be very careful having contact with him. If i should have contact with him again i believe he will find a way to hurt me. I have that funny feeling. Does anyone feel that way when breaking up with their sociopath? I feel like he wants to win by taking me down. Maybe using someone else to harm me. Thanks /Kelly