There are degrees of being a psychopath. Obviously some parents who rape, beat, lie, do drugs, are criminals, etc. are easily identified as such. But sometimes the signs are more subtle and the parent seems normal, even wonderful to outsiders. But the children still bear the psychological scars. It is made a hundred times worse when outsiders blame the child and tell him or her "you have wonderful parents, you're putting them through hell." My father has been dead ten years and sometimes I still get scared. He's ashes in an urn now, but "the evil men do lives after them". His major trait was bullying, manipulating, inflicting pain, transferring blame to others. I do indeed feel he was abnormal and evil.

Oh I forgot to mention she one of those sociopaths you could never tell shes a sociopath.
She seems so warm and loving. She scares the shit out of me.
The problem is at the same time im so dependent on her for everything.

I will message you