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Is he or she a sociopath or psychopath? Think we're only talking about serial killers here? Psychopaths, sociopaths and even narcissists come in every walk of life, every career level, and every socio-economic category.
It's being few days of calm. He stop contact my friend . He did send a friend request to my music video director (he had a fight with him) but rather than that it's silence and I feel better not having not even indirect contact . But every time I relax, something new comes out. Hopefully he gave up so I don t have to go to court. I wish I had money to move to another place so I can be more serene .
deleted_user
I am glad to hear it has stopped, maybe he has given up. You have been strong. I too, like you, go and have thought about moving away. I dont want to move but I wish to show him I am gone so he can wonder where I am. Sometimes I think about keeping it dark in here 24/7 so he cant sit down there anymore looking at my window, checking am I home, asking me if I have gone to sleep because the curtain got taken down and so on.
Nutellina
Thank you forgotten. Actually I was just would like to change apartment you know? So he would not know where I live!
deleted_user
Your welcome :) I understand why you would want that the way he has been. You would feel much safer. I dont want mine to know where I am because I start to think he deserves it. The few times he has called and I have been out he has been where are you, you are out?? he is used to me being indoors and my walking out has been sounding like a threat to him, like why are you out, where were you out, in town or up here..he wanted to know because he doesnt want to be caught in something....if not knowing where I am he would be paranoid...good for him! lol
Nutellina
It seems he wanted complite control on you and hiding at the same time. I think you deserve better!
positivagirl
i often found that their silence, was another manipulative game. To see if you miss them. to try to get their own way. I hope that isnt the case for you.
Nutellina
Lol I kind feel the same thing. I don't know why but every time he doesn't contact anymore, something bad news is going to happen. I hope he just gave up and he found another victim to "love". ( I don't really wish this for the poor girl)
deleted_user
Yes he wanted control because I think he didnt want me talk to people or catch him in something in town, so he was pleased with me being indoors. One time I played games with his head and when he called to tell me maybe he would come maybe he would not come. I was so tired of listening to him not knowing would he come or not, like I should just sit and wait for him while he could chose to not come and go out in town or do whatever he wanted. So I said when he called ( I was outside my flat then ). When he said maybe he will come, I said maybe I am not home, he got totally thrown off balance and said what? are you home? yes I am home now I said. Ok maybe I will come later. Maybe I am not homer later. I confused him and he started what what are you saying?? are you home or not?? yes I am home now...I did go like this 3-4 times till he said alright he would come, as I said he has to be sure or not would he come or I dont sit and wait for him. He did come. But LOL, that was hilarious for me! :)
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