Victims of Psychopaths Community Group

Is he or she a sociopath or psychopath? Think we're only talking about serial killers here? Psychopaths, sociopaths and even narcissists come in every walk of life, every career level, and every socio-economic category.

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Nutellina 12/06/2013

There is this guy that I just met but I do not wanna go out with anyone right now!
I told him I do have no intention to date or be involved. I met him three times only for a coffee.
The second time he brought me a gift. He text me all day long, telling me what he is doing. And if I do not answer, he keep texting anyway telling me what he is doing ,going to the store, an giving me details about his job.
Maybe I'm paranoid but….do you guys think this behavior is normal?I mean…..I saw this guy 4 times in my life……
Also he has kids and when I asked him since how long he didn't see them, he avoid the question….many times! MMMMmmmmmm….weird. It's a normal question I think!

RichieD 12/06/2013

I'd say trust your instincts, this doesn't sound right to me either.

Nutellina 12/06/2013

Yeah I'm a lil confuse now. But it does not sound right!

Nutellina 12/06/2013

I don't know why tonight I feel I've being abused a lot!!!!!
Like deeply…. even if I never being attack physically, I feel like I did! I have no idea what's happening!

RockinBunny 12/06/2013

Yeah, he sounds weird. I'm with Richie. If you don't want to date him, don't agree to any more meetings.

Nutellina 12/06/2013

Yeah yeah of course I'll not gonna meet him again. But he keeps texting me and send my internet cards. ben when I do not answer .

bellanomore 12/07/2013

block him

Nutellina 12/07/2013

I feel bad to do that…..

Gigi0007 12/07/2013

yeah download one of those call blocker apps for free. Hes grabing on to you to quickly calling too much too soon. These are psycho signs . Does he call repetitively one call after another thats weird and a red flag for me

Nutellina 12/07/2013

Yeah there is something very weird about all this. I walk away…..maybe I'm paranoid but better to not risk anymore

Nutellina 12/07/2013

Isn't another red flag that a guy doesn't go out on saturday night? He never goes out with friends and stuff! I find it strange!

Nutellina 12/07/2013

My ex was also isolated on saturday night, during holidays, etc……weird uh?

Nutellina 12/07/2013

Wow! Now he said he doesn't go out because it's always the man that spend for the woman not the other way around!!! OMG!!!

Nutellina 12/08/2013

I just wanna say . This guy I m talking about is not my ex. He is a guy I just met. And by the way.... All of you were right. I told him I was going out with my friend ( he thought I meant a guy) and he said that I m HIPOCRATICAL because I told him I wanna be alone and now I go out . And he said I lied to him. I have no idea what the hell he is talking about. I told him clearly I do not wanna date and now he called HIPOCRATICAL because he thinks I m going out with another guy? I saw this guy THREE TIMES in my life...... This is so f..... weird

Nutellina 12/08/2013

I simply went out with my female friends.

deleted_user 12/08/2013

When you meet someone and there is a struggle to do and be yourself, then you leave it alone. He sounds mentally unstable to me, and I have been single for quite a while. None of my male friends have the time or interest to hound a woman - and, that is what he is doing. I would be checking him out with the police. Could be other women have had the same experience. He sounds boring - I like a man who is into his career, loves the outdoors, has friends and loves his life.

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