I am at the end of my ropes. I am being threatened again about losing my kids. My exS sent me messages that he wants me to be a stand up wife (what?). He said he wont take the kids from me if I stop working where I work (he hates the guy I work for). So, again, I am under his thumb. I am tired of the threats. SInce I was forced to move here, it has gotten progressively worse. Maybe I should take myself out of this equation. And leave this chaos. I really think my X just wants me back and will stop at nothing to deteriorate my strength until I go back. I am exhausted and drained from the stress.

WithC, He is living with another woman. What right does he have to even refer to you as his wife, let alone tell you how you should be acting like one?

Lolololol!

He isnt living with another woman, I wish!

What about the "gal" in his life whom the judge believes?

No one would have him, Im sure.

lol, kris. I am SO GLAD you have never had to experience a custody battle with your S. GAL is the Guardian At Litem. She is supposed to be the children's attorney (which I am court ordered to pay) but she is a friend of my x's attorney and is EXTREMELY biased. Even the thought of giving a felon on federal probation without a job custody of my kids is crazy, she forced me to move down here or lose custody of my kids. She had all the people in his family and mine call her to tell her about him and his lies. She also has a psychiatrist tell her he was a sociopath. And his extensive police record. ONE MONTH after he got out of federal prison I was forced to move down here. He impersonated a police officer to CPS and on and on and on. Yet, she believes him. I am conviced she is a socioapth too.

Well she is a woman then. He probably has her in the palm of his hand. Why else would she be behaving like this?