1) Leaving work in a minute for my recovery meeting.
2) Sad but keep on keeping on.
3) Did I say I'm leaving work ... lol.

STD/HIV testing today (taking care of myself)
Felt immense relief when told I do NOT have herpes
had a great talk w/my sister. I love her.

Three more...

1) Bought a basketball! Don't play basketball but thought dribbling down the street would be fun and it is!
2) Got more work done today than I have in 3 months.
3) Had a great carefree chat with my dad on the phone.

got a new laptop so now im back , lol

my little girl is getting married in 11 days.

i feel much better thanks to u guys( i really am so greatful to each and everyone of u and for this group

thank u

Bella, I'm so happy you were laughing today. You so made me laugh out loud, right here at work. I still get tickled when I think about it! :))

That was my most positive thing today, laughing with Bella!

Hi Bella! Nice to see you :)

1) I had a nice lie-in without thinking of P once.
2) It was sunny (for once) & I got to spend time in my garden.
3) I got loads of errands done that I have been meaning to do for ages.

Hey girls, just wanted to say that I love reading these - don't know about you but even reading other peoples makes me feel more positive. Thanks x

lol girl i was dying in here i havent laughed like that in a long time, that was awesome , i miss laughing i think about it now even and i still keep grinning that was so good for the soul lol see haha too funny, i think we need to do that more often, it kind of puts things in the right perspective but i keep seeing a pic of ted in my head now lmao ok not so funny lol sick humor lol

I agree 100% with Beth, this thread brightens up my day!
Thank you so much, halfaheartremains :D

1. When I woke up this morning and looked at myself in a mirror, my eyes weren't puffy!!!

2. I accomplished A LOT today at work

3. I'm so glad that I have found this support group. Thank you so much, guys xxxxxx

hi beth!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

1. relationship is MUCH better with my daughter now (she hated my S)
2. have not heard from HIM in 2 days
3. having a fun day out in the country saturday with friends

try to smile and have a good day everyone. (((Hugs)))

Girls, I'll share what I shared with Bella yesteray. LOL. I'm grieving, right & my sister tries to make me feel better & she says in such a heartfelt & serious way ... "I know he loved you as much as he was able. Even Ted Bundy loved a woman, before he started killing all those other women." Needless to say, she knocked me into reality. All I could think of was, this is where my life had come, LMAO, I'm 50 years old & my sister is comparing my recent ex to a serial killer! lol, lol, lol, lol. It still makes me laugh, the absurdity of it all, ya know?

Taralong - that IS a reality check! Sometimes we need those moments to validate what we have been through too. Great sister! At least you can laugh about it!!

1. I woke up this morning from having a dream about my S and his current girlfriend who was the OW, and I just felt annoyed instead of sad.
2. I'm happy I have good friends, I think they've helped me a lot through my rough week.
3. I am starting to see how I fall into the trap of being manipulated, so I feel stronger.

Glad to hear others are doing well! :)

Great story taralong! Made me laugh too! Thanks.

My three things...

1) Going kayaking on the Hudson River today! And it's Free!
2) Woke up crying but managed to get up and out and am feeling better.
3) Grateful to have this site and this support!