Victims of Psychopaths Community Group
Is he or she a sociopath or psychopath? Think we're only talking about serial killers here? Psychopaths, sociopaths and even narcissists come in every walk of life, every career level, and every socio-economic category.
Hi-
I have an ex s/n and his new wife who is an even worseS/N. I have been modified no contact for 2.5 years and have managed to not set foot in a room with either of them for that time. They still try to harass me via email but I dont respond. They live an hour away but have decided to move to be closer to the children.... So I live in Australia and it costs approx $500 per week to live in the suburb where I live. Plenty of surrounding suburbs. He can get a house a 10 minute drive away that is around $100 cheaper per week but NO! they have money issues and are moving 5 minutes away. Why do they have to move to the same suburb we live in?
Its more than that though.... They went on to have more children as did I. My youngest is 4 and at school alone (no older siblings there) and they are sending their two children 5 & 6 TO THE SAME SCHOOL!!!!! it makes me want to vomit!!! I have NO IDEA what these children have heard from their parents but trust me- Its NOT good and I have the kind of child who is likely to be traumatised by bullying..............
Is this their one BIG move (sorry about the pun) .. Like their checkmate????
they have been trying to force a confrontation lately but I just ignored them... picking the kids up and waiting in the driveway half hanging out the car when they arent supposed to be there.. flooding email/phone/social media and all my kids devices with the same messages all for me- stuff like that...
I think I will have to move if they do it. For both mine and my youngest child's sake. I cannot deal with seeing my abusers on a twice daily basis.
Thoughts? What would you do?
Coralie X
I have an ex s/n and his new wife who is an even worseS/N. I have been modified no contact for 2.5 years and have managed to not set foot in a room with either of them for that time. They still try to harass me via email but I dont respond. They live an hour away but have decided to move to be closer to the children.... So I live in Australia and it costs approx $500 per week to live in the suburb where I live. Plenty of surrounding suburbs. He can get a house a 10 minute drive away that is around $100 cheaper per week but NO! they have money issues and are moving 5 minutes away. Why do they have to move to the same suburb we live in?
Its more than that though.... They went on to have more children as did I. My youngest is 4 and at school alone (no older siblings there) and they are sending their two children 5 & 6 TO THE SAME SCHOOL!!!!! it makes me want to vomit!!! I have NO IDEA what these children have heard from their parents but trust me- Its NOT good and I have the kind of child who is likely to be traumatised by bullying..............
Is this their one BIG move (sorry about the pun) .. Like their checkmate????
they have been trying to force a confrontation lately but I just ignored them... picking the kids up and waiting in the driveway half hanging out the car when they arent supposed to be there.. flooding email/phone/social media and all my kids devices with the same messages all for me- stuff like that...
I think I will have to move if they do it. For both mine and my youngest child's sake. I cannot deal with seeing my abusers on a twice daily basis.
Thoughts? What would you do?
Coralie X
It's sad you have to think like this but life is too precious to spend around such nasty people.