Victims of Psychopaths Community Group
Is he or she a sociopath or psychopath? Think we're only talking about serial killers here? Psychopaths, sociopaths and even narcissists come in every walk of life, every career level, and every socio-economic category.
On Twitter, Jenny B. claims to be "just an ordinary girl"...
I've been an avid trial watcher ever since my brother's sociopath, (now) ex-wife, Jenny B, plunged my entire family into a nightmare that lasted over 6 years and to some respect, because they share a child, continues to this day. I wasn't just drawn to the Casey Anthony case, I was obsessed with it. Here was another young woman, LYING and accusing everyone she ever knew of abusing her when in fact, she, like Jenny B, left a wake of destruction in everyone's life who was unfortunate enough to cross her path. Enter Jodi Arias, same MO. A pattern of poor interpersonal relationships with nearly everyone, mom, dad, siblings, especially those in a romantic relationship with her, and yet there are those that never see anything but a victim in these ordinary girls, entitlement issues, blame and accusations, no responsibility for ones actions, self-serving, no empathy for others, no remorse, lots of jobs, no job, the moving from place to place...and strangely, an "uncanny" interest in photography and art, especially an interest of photographing or illustrating themselves. What are they trying to capture or see with all those pictures they take of themselves? What are they trying to make us see or believe about them with all these pictures?
The thing that is bothering me most today is that no one is getting it. First of all let me assure the readers of this post that I am a self-taught expert on the subject of sociopaths. I have spent years devouring information on the subject, including Bipolar Disorder, Borderline Disorder and others. This wasn't easy, I don't know how many words I had to look up and how many times I had to re-read something over and over again until I fully understood the context of what I was reading.
How did this make me feel? What conclusions did I come to? After wrapping my mind around the fact that these so-called people walk among us, I sat on the fence a long time and wrestled with the causes of psychopathy being some sort of brain damage caused by either a physical or emotional defect or just plain evil itself, no soul vs possession, etc. I can't say that everyone I hear about on here or the news is one or the other, there are too many degrees and variations in these individuals to lump them all in together. For years I wanted to have empathy for our sociopath and believe that she couldn't help it, that she is ill. Now I truly believe that she is not sick, but rather she is indeed either evil or just not of "us". I don't know "what" she is, but there is not a human being in there, I don't care what any one thinks. Unless you have experienced the eerie feeling just being in her presence, you don't know.
These trials make me so sick because like with our sociopath, in the end there is no real justice. Even if these people go to jail or you never see them again, you'll never get the whole truth out of them. They will never tell you why. They land on their feet, they live off of others, they hide behind lawyers and use the church and anyone who will buy their sob story. They don't care so much about being in jail, they make friends there. They don't care who they live with because one human is just as good as another, its not like they have true feelings for anyone, not even for their own children, other than to possess them and use them like objects. They may even get ahead in life because after all how much could you get accomplished if you only lived for your self and what you wanted which is to make yourself look good and make everyone else you are not currently using or manipulating, miserable.
My point is that there are people who are ill and deserve our empathy, our sympathy and our help if possible. However, there are also those that deserve nothing from us once so ever. Not our compassion, not our time and not our status as a human being. This is a personal, individual choice that we have to make when confronted with what ever degree of sociopathy, psychopathy or evil we come into contact with.
To my knowledge Jenny B has never killed anyone, but I think there's still a 50% chance she might one of these days. She has CPS at her door every few years, just recently it was my nieces therapist who called them after the child got back from summer vacation with the sociopath, but it is always "unfounded". The child is called a liar and bipolar and nothing changes.
In the end, after all my reading and wrestling, I could not go against my intuition, What I know about our sociopath is irrational and most likely implausible, but I'm at peace with my decision. However, she knows I know whatever I know with all my heart and "I" am the only person (according to my brother for years now) that she is truly afraid of. I never threatened her, I wonder why she would be so afraid of me? After all, I'm just an ordinary girl...
I've been an avid trial watcher ever since my brother's sociopath, (now) ex-wife, Jenny B, plunged my entire family into a nightmare that lasted over 6 years and to some respect, because they share a child, continues to this day. I wasn't just drawn to the Casey Anthony case, I was obsessed with it. Here was another young woman, LYING and accusing everyone she ever knew of abusing her when in fact, she, like Jenny B, left a wake of destruction in everyone's life who was unfortunate enough to cross her path. Enter Jodi Arias, same MO. A pattern of poor interpersonal relationships with nearly everyone, mom, dad, siblings, especially those in a romantic relationship with her, and yet there are those that never see anything but a victim in these ordinary girls, entitlement issues, blame and accusations, no responsibility for ones actions, self-serving, no empathy for others, no remorse, lots of jobs, no job, the moving from place to place...and strangely, an "uncanny" interest in photography and art, especially an interest of photographing or illustrating themselves. What are they trying to capture or see with all those pictures they take of themselves? What are they trying to make us see or believe about them with all these pictures?
The thing that is bothering me most today is that no one is getting it. First of all let me assure the readers of this post that I am a self-taught expert on the subject of sociopaths. I have spent years devouring information on the subject, including Bipolar Disorder, Borderline Disorder and others. This wasn't easy, I don't know how many words I had to look up and how many times I had to re-read something over and over again until I fully understood the context of what I was reading.
How did this make me feel? What conclusions did I come to? After wrapping my mind around the fact that these so-called people walk among us, I sat on the fence a long time and wrestled with the causes of psychopathy being some sort of brain damage caused by either a physical or emotional defect or just plain evil itself, no soul vs possession, etc. I can't say that everyone I hear about on here or the news is one or the other, there are too many degrees and variations in these individuals to lump them all in together. For years I wanted to have empathy for our sociopath and believe that she couldn't help it, that she is ill. Now I truly believe that she is not sick, but rather she is indeed either evil or just not of "us". I don't know "what" she is, but there is not a human being in there, I don't care what any one thinks. Unless you have experienced the eerie feeling just being in her presence, you don't know.
These trials make me so sick because like with our sociopath, in the end there is no real justice. Even if these people go to jail or you never see them again, you'll never get the whole truth out of them. They will never tell you why. They land on their feet, they live off of others, they hide behind lawyers and use the church and anyone who will buy their sob story. They don't care so much about being in jail, they make friends there. They don't care who they live with because one human is just as good as another, its not like they have true feelings for anyone, not even for their own children, other than to possess them and use them like objects. They may even get ahead in life because after all how much could you get accomplished if you only lived for your self and what you wanted which is to make yourself look good and make everyone else you are not currently using or manipulating, miserable.
My point is that there are people who are ill and deserve our empathy, our sympathy and our help if possible. However, there are also those that deserve nothing from us once so ever. Not our compassion, not our time and not our status as a human being. This is a personal, individual choice that we have to make when confronted with what ever degree of sociopathy, psychopathy or evil we come into contact with.
To my knowledge Jenny B has never killed anyone, but I think there's still a 50% chance she might one of these days. She has CPS at her door every few years, just recently it was my nieces therapist who called them after the child got back from summer vacation with the sociopath, but it is always "unfounded". The child is called a liar and bipolar and nothing changes.
In the end, after all my reading and wrestling, I could not go against my intuition, What I know about our sociopath is irrational and most likely implausible, but I'm at peace with my decision. However, she knows I know whatever I know with all my heart and "I" am the only person (according to my brother for years now) that she is truly afraid of. I never threatened her, I wonder why she would be so afraid of me? After all, I'm just an ordinary girl...
It scares me that our society is so dumb.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Murder_of_James_Bulger
These two took animal torture to a new extreme. If you have ever lost your child in a shop, and spent several minutes of white faced, panic stricken terror, frantically searching, only to find them in an aisle, staring at the chocolate bars, knows that feeling of relief that washes over you. You immediately think of these two monsters (in the making), their evil is forever burnt into our minds.
I love that last line too, someday I'm going to finish my book.