Victims of Psychopaths Community Group
Is he or she a sociopath or psychopath? Think we're only talking about serial killers here? Psychopaths, sociopaths and even narcissists come in every walk of life, every career level, and every socio-economic category.
Are you guys feel more lonely and down around the holidays about the P?
I really do…….thinking he is having wonderful holidays with his other woman…..and I'm alone…..
I really do…….thinking he is having wonderful holidays with his other woman…..and I'm alone…..
Probably…..
I do feel the freedom from suffering. Maybe I feel like that because holidays are dedicated to love….and I SO wish to be in love again and spend my holidays with my man!
Just a gentle reminder the P is the drug dealer , busy getting other people hooked you have been through your detox and now you are on your healing path breathe a sigh of relief that you are well educated about Ps now and you don't have to go through it ever again.
You are right this is a time of love, real love and when you express it to the people you love you mean it and it makes you feel good your P is not biochemically created that way he can't feel love and when the P expresses it its a whole load of lies. All the P wants is to set his next victim up for failure that is when they get there high. My P actually admitted this to me he said " I hurt you WOW I DID THAT" he was so proud of himself like he had just won an Olympic gold medal when I think of that moment I get a terrible physical pain in my chest that runs down my arms and into my hands, how can anyone be proud of driving us into total despair a P can its totally evil.
Christmas is nearly here and I am dreading it too but I have a survival plan I'm going to keep educating myself about P's read the books, the websites the you tube vids everything there is to know I will be the expert on the subject. I will hug the stuffing out of people who deserve my love and I will talk to them and point out all the wonderful things about them. I will be safe in the knowledge that Christmas 2014 will be so much better.
Nutellina I feel for you so much you are not alone you are indeed a beautiful person with allot to give and to receive.
Tonight go outside look up at a star breathe deep and know that stargone and everyone in this group is sending you love and light.
Take care.
Merry Christmas to you guys!
It is true what Fightingfor wrote. We who have normail human feelings are also capable of feeling not only the sadness, anger, lonleliness we feel now , but great feelings like real joy, happiness and in the end hving a fullfiling life. I am not there yet but I have moments of it , and you will too. Remember it is a long road ...
To feel anger and a need for revence is also a part of this. It is real feelings and it is honest. I think the most important is not to act unwisely with revence. That often is like a boomerang comming right back. If i had acted on thse feelings I had , i would probably be in jail now:)
I had a periode I didnt want to live anymore. I have a very wise psycologist that said he totaly stood behind me if I sank down "his" ( dont want to call him mine anymore)boat, as long as I didnt took my own life. Of course he didnt think that was right or moral but he allowed me to feel honest human feelings. That did a lot to me. Because I was able to express those feelings , get them in the light, my need for revence is not that important anymore. But the legal things I can do , like going to the police, having a lawer and never ever let him in my life anymore is so important to me. I know not everyone is in the possition to "get" him. I have evidence and he is starting to make mistake so everyone can see. Olease only talk to people that these things or people who are willing to learn. that has been a hard lesson to me.
i wish you the very best in life. It is a way out even if you not see it clearly yet:)