Does it seem there is always a dark cloud over us? As of lately I have become very angry with my ex S. I have been in therapy for the last year and 1/2 figuring things out about myself and him. I realize i am textbook codependent. I have allowed this man to ruin me financially, while draining me mentally on this merry go round I couldn't seem to get off. I realize he is textbook sociopath that is a user and the devil. I have finally to the place where I am able to stand up to him. I finally got to the place where I don't want this relationship anymore and I don't want to take any more of his emotional abuse or bull crap. I bought a condo and this is a big step for me. I'm nervous and excited at the same time. Everything is forward march. Before I know it, my cousin who has 5 children and a husband who absolutely adores her came to me with really bad news. Her husband suddenly went into cardiac arrest and passed at age 48 and left her and the kids. They have now come to live with us at my mom's house, which put my move on hold. We get through that and they find a massive blockage in my mom's artery and she has to have heart surgery which put my move on hold. In the midst of this I am fighting with the ex to get his car out of my name. He hasn't been paying his insurance and it comes directly from my bank account. I already took out a loan from my 4 01K for him that he is not paying back. Every 2 weeks they take a little over 200 until it is paid. I told him he has until Wednesday to get me the plates and my money or I report the car stolen. Feeling pretty proud that I could set this boundary. Tonight I get home and learn my paycheck will be garnished approximately 300 every 2 weeks because my student loan is in default. Maybe I'm having a pity party but I feel i can't get a break. Is it just me?
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