Victims of Psychopaths Community Group
Is he or she a sociopath or psychopath? Think we're only talking about serial killers here? Psychopaths, sociopaths and even narcissists come in every walk of life, every career level, and every socio-economic category.
my father is a psychopath. I think it might be genetic because other people on his side of the family have personality disorders.
not on my mothers side tho, so I don't think any of my siblings have cluster b personality
I don't know what happened. my parents went away to a hotel a week ago for a few days to get away from my sister and her kids who were bothering them. they live here. my sister broke some furniture and a mirror in an angry rage. she has some other problems no one wants to acknowledge
so then my parents went to the hotel. when they got back its life a flip switched in their brains and they zoned in out and me and started going after me , randomly. nothing happened and they started going crazy at me.
my mother has bipolar so she has angry rages
but my father is a very manipulative very convincing psychopath, one of the most psychopathic people out there besides serial killers. I don't think he has killed anyone ....but he has done a lot of crimes he got away with many yrs ago and before he met my mother.
he didn't get arrested
he is a predator and he acts strange around my sisters 4 yr old daughter but I cant prove anything. but there is a strange thing going on how he speaks to her.... but he is also a pedofile. some incidents took place many yrs ago and my sister found pictures of naked 5-12 yr old girls in his office hidden. he ordered from some photo sharing ring pictures of naked underage kids.
which is scary. no one went to the police
they got back from the hotel threatening me and yelling at me severely. like how alec Baldwin yells at people.
its scary and he has been threatening me every day, demanding attention like he is 4 yrs old and making demands that I stop everything and be controlled
he is controlling and insulting me and then accusing me of things that are not true. he is delusional and I think he believes the delusions or he thinks its a funny game and is acting angry when he is not angry
he is criticizing everything
he yells at me every day since like 20 times a day.. he is now telling me I need to gain weight and what food he will allow me to eat. its weird but he is very obese to a point that he cannot walk some days much because of the weight. but he for yrs has been trying to control what food I eat what type or brand of food I can get
its strange.
he wont control his own diet but he attemps over the years to either force me to starve or live off friench fries and takeout food..
im 30 yrs old and he has been doing things to force me to stay in his home. he has done drastic things to force me to stay home and he dosnt ever allow me to go to school or have a job or drive
he dosnt act to me like im a daughter.he acts to me like im a slave
he has control of the whole police station, every ambulance worker and every doctor, emergency room, lawyer, court system, judge
he acts like he owns the authority and he gets what he wants all the time because he is one of the top psychopaths in the country.
he has gotten away with a lot of crazy things and easily lied and manipulated police
he could tell the craziest lies and people believe
everyone he talks to is emediately convinced that im a raging dangerous schitzophrenic crazy person.
so once he talks to someone that person joins his army and becomes a danger to me because they are under the influence of his lies
and they help him
theres no way to convince those people. he does smear campaigns
anyways he owns the mental health system and he has been yelling at me telling me that he is going to put me away in a mental hospital, again for the 211th time.
I became thousands of dollars in debt for ambulance rides to the psych er when he would prank call police to lie to them saying im crazy
how do I get him to back away and not put me into a mental hospital? he does the thing as revenge if he feels angry at anyone and then lets it out on me
he transfers the anger and pretends its me who made him angry
he tells me he owns me and that im his property
its scary and I cant focus, im worried.
I don't have a mental illness diagnoses ever in my life but he still has put me away a lot of times and force drugged me
I don't know what magic words he says to them but psychopaths know exactly what to say to get people to do what they want
and when I get there they say im crazy based alone on what he says because they don't ever want to believe he lies
he got them to misdiagnose me with 40 different mental problems based on what symptoms he told them. he made up the symptoms.
he put together stories and lies that he didn't remember a day later. he couldn't repeat the facts because he didn't write them down
I tried the medium chilli thing and it worked for a few weeks but not now. he is acting like he wants to kill me severely angry all the time and making fun of me, maybe that's part of the game. they think its funny and pretend to be angry
but im physically disabled im recovering from a mild stroke I had last yr but was bedridden for months most of the day
and another illness.
I almost died from the illness . but he dosnt care and showed no remorse when I almost died. he tells people I was never sick, even tho people had to call ambulances for me a bunch of times. and all my doctors are worried about me
he has a delusion in his mind that I was never sick
my sister even rode in the ambulance with me that time and she heard the doctor explain my medical diagnoses
but my parents still tell me they think I was never sick
its creepy
my mother has angry bipolar rages and also mpd/multiple personality. I think one or two of her 6 personalities are psychopathic because when she switches sometimes to the other personality she seems to be a caring empathetic person but in the one she is now she acts sadistic and angry with rages and bipolar. she gets violent
so I think my father might be mimicking her emotions as a mask because he forgot his mask how it was before he left
so he is now mimicking how my mother acts and that is angry with rage and hateful to me. I see he is copying how my angry bipolar raging mother is acting.
which he does sometimes he copies her emotions if he dosnt know how to be
he sees my mother is acting hateful to me so maybe he is copying her , maybe by abusing me and threatening me and putting me away to win her over. as a love bombing thing to her like to be on her side.
he did that before
he is acting strange like he dosnt know me or remember anything about my life the last few yrs
and he is being controlling,
how do I make sure they don't do anything impulsive. because my father is a danger to me. he acts on his delusions and impulse and he thinks everything is a game including my health. I only had the stroke because he did things as a game to make my health bad
he is gaslighting and blaming me for everything he has been doing.
not on my mothers side tho, so I don't think any of my siblings have cluster b personality
I don't know what happened. my parents went away to a hotel a week ago for a few days to get away from my sister and her kids who were bothering them. they live here. my sister broke some furniture and a mirror in an angry rage. she has some other problems no one wants to acknowledge
so then my parents went to the hotel. when they got back its life a flip switched in their brains and they zoned in out and me and started going after me , randomly. nothing happened and they started going crazy at me.
my mother has bipolar so she has angry rages
but my father is a very manipulative very convincing psychopath, one of the most psychopathic people out there besides serial killers. I don't think he has killed anyone ....but he has done a lot of crimes he got away with many yrs ago and before he met my mother.
he didn't get arrested
he is a predator and he acts strange around my sisters 4 yr old daughter but I cant prove anything. but there is a strange thing going on how he speaks to her.... but he is also a pedofile. some incidents took place many yrs ago and my sister found pictures of naked 5-12 yr old girls in his office hidden. he ordered from some photo sharing ring pictures of naked underage kids.
which is scary. no one went to the police
they got back from the hotel threatening me and yelling at me severely. like how alec Baldwin yells at people.
its scary and he has been threatening me every day, demanding attention like he is 4 yrs old and making demands that I stop everything and be controlled
he is controlling and insulting me and then accusing me of things that are not true. he is delusional and I think he believes the delusions or he thinks its a funny game and is acting angry when he is not angry
he is criticizing everything
he yells at me every day since like 20 times a day.. he is now telling me I need to gain weight and what food he will allow me to eat. its weird but he is very obese to a point that he cannot walk some days much because of the weight. but he for yrs has been trying to control what food I eat what type or brand of food I can get
its strange.
he wont control his own diet but he attemps over the years to either force me to starve or live off friench fries and takeout food..
im 30 yrs old and he has been doing things to force me to stay in his home. he has done drastic things to force me to stay home and he dosnt ever allow me to go to school or have a job or drive
he dosnt act to me like im a daughter.he acts to me like im a slave
he has control of the whole police station, every ambulance worker and every doctor, emergency room, lawyer, court system, judge
he acts like he owns the authority and he gets what he wants all the time because he is one of the top psychopaths in the country.
he has gotten away with a lot of crazy things and easily lied and manipulated police
he could tell the craziest lies and people believe
everyone he talks to is emediately convinced that im a raging dangerous schitzophrenic crazy person.
so once he talks to someone that person joins his army and becomes a danger to me because they are under the influence of his lies
and they help him
theres no way to convince those people. he does smear campaigns
anyways he owns the mental health system and he has been yelling at me telling me that he is going to put me away in a mental hospital, again for the 211th time.
I became thousands of dollars in debt for ambulance rides to the psych er when he would prank call police to lie to them saying im crazy
how do I get him to back away and not put me into a mental hospital? he does the thing as revenge if he feels angry at anyone and then lets it out on me
he transfers the anger and pretends its me who made him angry
he tells me he owns me and that im his property
its scary and I cant focus, im worried.
I don't have a mental illness diagnoses ever in my life but he still has put me away a lot of times and force drugged me
I don't know what magic words he says to them but psychopaths know exactly what to say to get people to do what they want
and when I get there they say im crazy based alone on what he says because they don't ever want to believe he lies
he got them to misdiagnose me with 40 different mental problems based on what symptoms he told them. he made up the symptoms.
he put together stories and lies that he didn't remember a day later. he couldn't repeat the facts because he didn't write them down
I tried the medium chilli thing and it worked for a few weeks but not now. he is acting like he wants to kill me severely angry all the time and making fun of me, maybe that's part of the game. they think its funny and pretend to be angry
but im physically disabled im recovering from a mild stroke I had last yr but was bedridden for months most of the day
and another illness.
I almost died from the illness . but he dosnt care and showed no remorse when I almost died. he tells people I was never sick, even tho people had to call ambulances for me a bunch of times. and all my doctors are worried about me
he has a delusion in his mind that I was never sick
my sister even rode in the ambulance with me that time and she heard the doctor explain my medical diagnoses
but my parents still tell me they think I was never sick
its creepy
my mother has angry bipolar rages and also mpd/multiple personality. I think one or two of her 6 personalities are psychopathic because when she switches sometimes to the other personality she seems to be a caring empathetic person but in the one she is now she acts sadistic and angry with rages and bipolar. she gets violent
so I think my father might be mimicking her emotions as a mask because he forgot his mask how it was before he left
so he is now mimicking how my mother acts and that is angry with rage and hateful to me. I see he is copying how my angry bipolar raging mother is acting.
which he does sometimes he copies her emotions if he dosnt know how to be
he sees my mother is acting hateful to me so maybe he is copying her , maybe by abusing me and threatening me and putting me away to win her over. as a love bombing thing to her like to be on her side.
he did that before
he is acting strange like he dosnt know me or remember anything about my life the last few yrs
and he is being controlling,
how do I make sure they don't do anything impulsive. because my father is a danger to me. he acts on his delusions and impulse and he thinks everything is a game including my health. I only had the stroke because he did things as a game to make my health bad
he is gaslighting and blaming me for everything he has been doing.
it is not easy. I have a life threatening illness that is debilitating. so on many days im very disabled and cannot even speak sentences. due to slurred speech, drowsiness.
and I also forget due to the tiredness. but I have been doing things to attempt to get help since over 10 yrs back
in 1997 I made a report to the child protective services. I didn't know what liars I was up against. when they got here I told them the truth.
even tho when I made the report it was when I had no bruises and I thought they would believe me.
my parents had my whole family lie to them and tell them I was a troubled child and lying. they believed my parents and not me
so no one did anything
again later on I told my psychologist about how my father kicked me down the carpeted steps at home that day because I couldn't walk because of a foot injury, I was on crutches.
I told her to help me so she called police to report child abuse and they reported it to the cps and they didn't let me go back home but they made me stay for 5 months in a mental institution locked down and drugged on high doses of antipsychotics
the hospital and doctors told me they don't believe I was ever abused and they told me I was schitzophrenic instead and imagining it
I didn't know at the time that my parents were talking daily to the psychiatrist there to lie about me, no one told me
they would tell the doctor to give me more antipsychotic medication.
my father has a phone book size pile of psychiatric hospital records from the 4 years he kept me in the mental institutions. and it says im diagnosed with dozens of serious psychiatric disorders
my parents decided to stick with the 2 that they like the best. severe schitzophrenia and autism
they tell everyone, with records and letters from psychiatrist to back up their claim that im severely schitzophrenic and a danger to society
they also tell some people but not others that im mildly autistic
anyways that's a bunch of garbage because I never experienced any symptoms of schitzophrenia or autism.
that's part of their gaslighting because what do psychopaths go through in their mind (delusions,impulsive rages,trouble in relationships and social rules and they have next to no real emotions)
so I figured them getting every psychiatrist they speak to and pay to write lettes saying im schitzo or whatever is them gaslighting
its them not me
im not imagining for 30 yrs being abused.
I witnessed them hurting and abusing other family members such as my siblings
me up against psychopathic parents who have every piece of legal documents to prove that im a dangerous disturbed person , they tell everyone im imagining things and was never mistreated and that schitzophrenic people don't know what is real
so no one ever believes me as soon as they meet my parents
I have called police dozens of times,reported to social service, nope they wont believe me either that I need any help and that im abused. they think I need more antipsychotic pills
I tried the domestic violence shelter line and they said they have no services for a medically fragile person. because I cannot take care of myself..
also im property of my father as he reminds me. he went to court against me about 20 times since I turned 18 to get different court orders to say that im mentally insane or to order court ordered psychiatric treatment, he got a restraining order against me all while controlling me and forcing me to live in his house
he told the judge that he is terribly afraid of me..... while forcing me to stay in his home and yelling at me and violating the order of protection.
sounds odd
then a week later he had his expensive lawyer file paperwork to try to get ownership of me. while he had the order of protection
he told the judge that im too mentally disabled to think for myself and that he has to make all decisions for me the rest of my life
he spoke to the forensic court appointed psychologist who is supposed to evaluate the situation and he even became friends over time with the forensic psychologist, he seemed friendly with the judge too on the day of the court a few months later my father and the judge were talking like old friends and making jokes to eachother
the forensic psychologist said in his report about me that im a severe danger to the community and have a severe case of schitzophrenia one of the worst. and that I don't know how to think for myself or understand anything.
he said in the letter that I need to be under my fathers legal control so that he could send me to a group home or institution for the mentally disabled to learn how to tell time, use a toaster,how to shop, do laundry, make a sandwich... to learn basic life skills any 10 yr old knows
he wrote in the report that I didn't know how to do any basic thing due to my schitzophrenia so I never learned yet. I was in my mid 20s then. that was 6 yrs ago
and no one sent me anywhere to learn anything. nothing. it was a bull garbage excuse to get the judge to write the court thing
all lies
my father got the forensic psychologist to write anything he told him to write about me. all of it not true
he got another psychiatrist who never met me to commit perjury by writing a letter saying im schitzophrenic
he got another social worker who he met and chose to write a letter with lies in it about me that he made up
he gets people to do things that are illegal and maliscous with no question
they never say no they do what he says. he creates an army against me of people who do whatever he says to put my life in trouble
he has the police brainwashed , he has all social workers and social services brainwashed, he brainwashed my lawyer that the court appointed to me so the lawyer refused to stand up for me. he just showed up to court without wanting to speak to me and he repeated what my father told to him
he convinces every hospital administrator, every psychiatrist or professional that im always in need of severe mental help for my severe psychological problems and schitzophrenia
he plays the victim of the poor helpless parent with the emotionally disturbed adult daughter who wont get mental help
every door to help me is closed because once they see/meet him it is over for me and they do not want to help me instantly and instead it turns into a case of this woman needs psychiatric help and antipsychotic medication
instead of she needs help to get away from being abused
they see my parents as angels who are victimized by their disturbed daughter. my parents are seen as the saviors
trying to get their crazy daughter the mental help
every time I try to get out I get stopped by psychiatry for years
they tell me theres no way out the only way out from my imaginary mistreatment is the right antipsychotic medication and time in a psych ward
and I did that over and over again and im still stuck in the same thing and still abused.
the antipsychotic drugs didn't cure the abuse that my siblings, I and some other people know did happen
didn't change my thoughts or memories
I have no way to go up against my father. he tells me he legally owns me because of some court order
he threatens me with that
im sick so my only way out is to recover
and then run away. but he will find me.
he could force the police to bring me back or lock me away if he finds me. since its illegal for me to do anything without his permission
im stuck in the home for now with my parents
but I have tried everything, I have told dozens of people. no help
its not that I sat there doing nothing, im literally stuck. trapped by the law and other things
but in the meantime while im stuck with these crazies I need to know how to deal with it.
with the rages from them, the attention seeking behavior they do,the demands, anger fits from them out of nowhere due to their boredom, the lies and humiliation ,the threats
I get told to die about 10 times a day by my mother. she yells and curses me out
out of nowhere.
I tried ignoring them
and for a while it helped. and I found something called medium chilli and I did that. because it goes in certain cycles. the same that a psychopath in a relationship does
the love bombing, attention seeking, the chipper mood and fake normalness, then they get bored and randomly go after you with accusations, threats, demands, insults, the smear campaign of your character, violent rages and fits
I see that pattern from my parents. both of them.
I try to be neutral. don't be on the scene, pretend im always busy
even if they want to ever ask me about the weather during the love bomb phase to later get an excuse to terrorize me. then I ignore them and don't answer
because if I do answer yes I think its raining today then they will use that against me later to terrorize me and lash out at me in the violent rage stage to say how dare you think your good enough to answer me
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but they go through a week or two of demanding constant attention and looking for negative drama to create. even if I have tripped over a chair and sprained my ankle they wont let me take care of myself and they demand attention from me and answers and order me around and threaten me and accuse me even tho in my mind at the time I need to take care of myself and get to a doctor because I cant walk well and need ice
but they think nothing of it if I need to pay attention to myself
I have to stop everything, no matter what. if my tooth broke or whatever and emediately pay attention to their attention seeking
and that is dangerous
so I need to get around that. when they are in the threaten, attention seeking stage where they are yelling and calling me insults and accusing delusional things
if I try ignoring them they threaten to not let me eat any food.they get very very controlling if they don't get the attention time and reaction from me to the drama they want to create
they tell me if I don't argue back with them and if ignore them they will not allow me to have any groceries or food
they have starved me In the past
they make more severe threats if the grocery and starve threat dosnt work to get my attention. then they threaten to go to court again against me and they threaten to force drug me again and to keep putting me back in the psych ward until I learn my lesson
so they don't give me a choice to ignore them
and I do have some ptsd from what they did to me, so anytime they mention the word mental hospital it triggers flashbacks and my ptsd so I cant sleep at night those days and I get very shaken up
according to me there is no place worse than most of the psych wards ive been to
I developed severe ptsd from the psych places and severe trauma from being there
so they know that is the threat that works and I dotn kn0w if they are doing games and just threatening or really going to commit me to the psych ward again for the 200th time.
they get impulsive and don't think about any future so they do things based on anger a lot of times. nothing would stop them from dialing 911 and saying my emotionally disturbed daughter wont take her medication and she is suicidal.
even if theres no medication. there isn't
so in order to avoid not getting a meal for a week like last time where I almost passed out or being forced my ambulance to the psych er and forced to take blood tests for the same thing and forced drugged
then I go along with their fights and arguments and the drama happens and I get yelled at and that is not good
I wonder what else I can do besides go along with their attention seeking and negative drama creating
in the meantime
because
their demand for attention is not good for my health
I need to find the right people who will bevelieve me and actually understand the situation, to stand up for me
I need people on my side. until then I need to find coping skills
I don't want to chose between having food the next day or arguing with my parents and being stressed
the stress from their attention demands and name calling is sometimes worse for me than not eating for 2 days
maybe I need to get people who will listen to me, and find a way to document how they are.
the only people who will listen to me are people who understand this situation or people who do not speak to my parents.
I went and got a private psychological evaluation at a psychologist my parents didn't meet ever. they got to know me and they said to me that I have no psychological issue and never did. and that my parents had no reason to call me crazy or ever put me into the psych hospital
also tho because of my medical issue infection and because of my long term ptsd and shyness I have trouble getting across to people and being assertive. so I have a hard time getting people to understand whats going on when I speak in person
I might appear a certain way introverted or look nervous and a low voice so people aren't understanding
sometimes ptsd can make someone seem like they are crazy and not present themselves well or as believable
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so a shy person who is nervous against a skilled manipulator(both my parents)
I feel like me alone in person speaking to people cant stand up against my parents and get anyone to understand me
but its very difficult
my parents have every route blocked. they have been planning this for decades so they knew all my possible moves, what I would do and they blocked that in advance
ive don't a lot of things and no results
who is going to listen to them