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I've back with him for 8 months

Nutellina
Nutellina
Who know my story , know also that my ex is being very trouble for my life.
Everyone kept saying he was coming back because they always do…….it was true. He were calling me for three months, text messages….I never answered! I did in the end……he was super charming that I start with him again. He behave very well for 8 months….I was kinda disattouched in the other end for fear. When I finally opened up, he cheated behind my back swearing he was truthful to me. Lying in front of the evidence. I gave him hard time for one month ( i was jealous, I don't know why), so he reacted going back to his ex girlfriend……he was lying like it was saying the truth! It is shocking to me.
Now everyone are saying he will come back again…..I don't think so but…..
Nutellina
Nutellina
When I had the feeling he was cheating I told him calmly to tell me the truth so I could choose. He was saying that he was faithful. I told him we could take some time, he said he did not need to otherwise we were dating others……but…..he was already cheating! How can be this possible? I just do not get it!
Nutellina
Nutellina
Two months ago he was getting emotional while we were in a restaurant because he want to ask me to marry me……now he is back with his ex. It seems one or the other is the same.
SonoMahi
SonoMahi
I was about to ask my friends that has anyone ever gone back to the P after a break and what was the result, I got my answer from you. So they come back to cheat again.
My psychopath who was after me for 5-6 years, disappeared with a girl within 2 months of our break up ( probably was cheating even before that while he was asking me to get a divorce and marry him) and I was so stupid, I was getting a divorce for him.
SonoMahi
SonoMahi
And he did not let me settle in my marriage from the first day of my marriage. Stalked me, followed me, and I let him back in my life.
Nutellina
Nutellina
Yeah they usually come back, not for love but because it did not work out with the other person. Or because they do not bare to loose control.
Nutellina
Nutellina
I have his stuff in my place. Two bags full of clothes and some equipment. I m so tempted to sell or through away everything from the anger..... I m forcing myself not to.... But I do not know for how long I can resist!
Nutellina
Nutellina
I wonder why he did not pick up his stuff! I shouldn't be the one concern about it. It s his stuff!
Nutellina
Nutellina
Very down!!!! I feel so stupid!!!
SonoMahi
SonoMahi
I would have thrown away his stuff lolz :)
Nutellina
Nutellina
I m still thinking about it
WIthConscience
WIthConscience
It gets progressively worse after you go back. :(
Nutellina
Nutellina
It did not behave bad like last time honestly. For months he was great….then I started to to be jealous and he went back to his ex. But the bad part is that he did not tell me…..he was saying to trust him but I'm pretty sure he was seeing her!
WIthConscience
WIthConscience
Nutellina - You keep saying you started to be jealous. If he went back to his ex, you clearly had every reason to be jealous. I cant help but think your jealousy was a result of him gas lighting. Its very normal to be jealous when someone gives you reason to be.
Nutellina
Nutellina
he was really doing the right things (in front of me) and I start to be jealous. I really didn't have any reasons if not my fear that he would do something like he did in the end.