Victims of Psychopaths Community Group

Is he or she a sociopath or psychopath? Think we're only talking about serial killers here? Psychopaths, sociopaths and even narcissists come in every walk of life, every career level, and every socio-economic category.

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AndreaBEE 02/17/2014

Such a long story and I am so ashamed to fall into his BS AGAIN. I feel like a mouse caught by a big nasty cat right now. I allowed him to con me out of money AGAIN. Money that I didn't really have but I lent with the agreement that I would get it back this week. I have seen him BS and manipulate so many people and now I may be on the hit list.

I spent a good amount of time in therapy on Friday talking about this. I have to start NC right away, AGAIN.

Why am I on the HIT LIST, because I left him back last April and we all know the rest of the reasons. Because he is a crazy abuser, manipulator.

And.......I fell into the trap AGAIN. Would love to see my money but I'm not feeling it. My heart and soul are broken right now and I'm broke and he doesn't even give a shit. I am amazed that he waited this long to do this, 10 months.

deleted_user 02/18/2014

It's ok Andrea these monsters are masters at manipulation and even though we all know what they are up to there is this small part of us that wants to believe they have some form of good in them, so we get hoovered back into the evil web and then go through the whole "what have I done thing". I bet you got his best pity story and when you are a beautiful, caring person like yourself it is impossible to resist. Don't beat yourself up look at it like giving up smoking or some other habit, it takes a few goes and then one day it actually happens.
Breathe, it's ok, and rest in the knowledge it will never happen again.
Hugs x

Gigi0007 02/20/2014

I did the same thing after year and a half but he did serve a purpose for me drove me aroung for a couple days after car accident. No one else has that kind of time and we had some fun around holidays neither one of us have any family to speak of..I put him on the blacklist because it was same old crap.boo hoo about last chick that threw him out hes ]on drug felony probation booting up heroin every day.. barf

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