Victims of Psychopaths Community Group
Is he or she a sociopath or psychopath? Think we're only talking about serial killers here? Psychopaths, sociopaths and even narcissists come in every walk of life, every career level, and every socio-economic category.
I wonder what did your P do to guilt trip you? I remember when I started dating my exP, he was SO good to me, that I thought I didn´t deserve it. I though he was very sweet, he did very nice things to me (special gifts, dinners, etc.) and I thought of myself as the "bad guy" in the relationship cause I couldn´t reciproate it, he seemed to love me much more than I loved him. But now when I think about it. Did he do that intentionally to guilt trip me? What did your P do to guilt trip you?
He would often tell me that I never talk to him or contact him to chat. When I do try to start conversations with him, he would try to stop me from talking. He'll do this many times and pretends to be mad at me for not giving him enough attention. He's faked crying to make me feel guilty.
He creates all these acts to try to hide his infidelity to me. I'm sure he jumped from woman to woman from day to night. All his cheating and lying must make it impossible for him to be natural anymore.
- Mine made me feel bad about the choices I made when I younger (very promiscuous) and hinted that I was lucky to have someone accept me at all.
- He was constantly reminding me of how lonely he was growing up and how I was his best friend.
- He was ALWAYS saying he was changing or trying to change... that he just wanted to be a good dad and be there for our children... over & over but it was just words with absolutely no follow-through.
And honestly he just had some weird look he could give that instantly made you feel bad for him. Like a hungry puppy. SO bizarre. A lot of times, he didn't have to say anything at all.
He would put me down, and tell me that he was the only one who could be with me. that is a common trick of theirs to put you down, emotionally abuse you so that you think you couldnt be with someone else anyway. So they continue to control you.
Mine was a total parasite. He loved getting things for free was a scrounger. he would go as far as to make out he was starving to get a free burger....
He would always say he was changing was getting a job, was working hard, but it was all lies, he just did the same thing over and over again. Its the MASK that they wear. Nothing is real with them, nearly everything they say or do has a reason behind it.