Victims of Psychopaths Community Group
Is he or she a sociopath or psychopath? Think we're only talking about serial killers here? Psychopaths, sociopaths and even narcissists come in every walk of life, every career level, and every socio-economic category.
When looking back at my relationship with my ex, he used to say bizarre inappropriate things. Such as one time I told him this older guy helped my jump my car and he said (sorry this is gross) "did you let him c@$%m up inside you?" Or one time I told him I had to get glasses and he said "as long as you can find my dick". Then he'd just kind of laugh about it like frat boy but would continue to say this subtle degrading things that would catch me off guard and leave me thinking later "did he really say that?" I can think of many more examples . Has this ever happened to anyone else?
positivagirl
I found that the Narcissist did this. As he had no respect for me. The psycho was too charming and charismatic to say any such thing. He was wearing a mask. HE would say bad things when he had a narc rage.... but that was because he had then lost self control.
Aniijo
often He would say devaluing Inappropriate things to me then laugh it off like it was nothing.He has a dark sense of humor... He's prejudice,sexist,& perverted so I heard a lot of disturbing stuff from him. I still cant believe that I actually put up with that.Shortly after his rages the mask was back on . He would be so sweet & charismatic. I was completely brainwashed. I used to make excuses for his behavior but now I accept the truth & I see him for what he really is.
Blindsided85
Hmmm interesting positivagirl, I wonder if he is a narcissist. I flip back and forth as he some of each traits.
Gigi0007
Yeah l have heard it all unfortunately..l cant even share what l have heard its not allowed on the site.Just negative nasty stuff to change energy from good to bad in moments.changing the climate like lucifer
deleted_user
My sociopath is/was also too charming and cunning to ever say weird stuff like that. But I have heard one narcissist talk lots of crazy stuff, like an immature giggling boy.
Aniijo
hmm...Someone please clarify for me...the narcissist says crazy inappropriate stuff like that,but the sociopath is always calm & collected and keeps it to himself unless he is enraged?
deleted_user
I wonder too, but I have noticed in two narcissists that they were extremely immature and say things that are nuts. But not my exS, he is pure ice cold and charming when he needs to be. It would be interesting to know why there are such difference.
deleted_user
Another thing I have noticed is that I never saw the ice cold stare in the narcissists. I saw a stare in one of them, more like protecting their "territory stare".. but in a mild way, but it was far from the ice cold stare I have seen in my exS.
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