Victims of Psychopaths Community Group
Is he or she a sociopath or psychopath? Think we're only talking about serial killers here? Psychopaths, sociopaths and even narcissists come in every walk of life, every career level, and every socio-economic category.
I love your post and comments here. Yes, we need all the smiles we can get. It helps us take our power back. Hope you have an awesome day! :)
Quoting my favorite movie of all time, The Big Lebowski, "just because we bereaved doesn't make us saps."
I am a fan and I often think about the film Generations in which the crew the Enterprise has rescued desperately want to return to the Nexus a place where they can live there dream life with all the people
they love and the places that really felt at home. In fact the vilan in the film is so desperate to return there he put the lives on the crew at risk to get there. The Captain has an experience inside the Nexus and of course he doesn't want to leave but he has a realisation that it isn't real its just a fabrication and of course does his duty and returns to reality.
I related to the film in that my "relationship" wasn't real it was a fabrication on the P's behalf and he used his knowledge of my past and my experiences to mirror me and create a perfect situation that put me on such an incredible high I too did not want to return to reality. Of course the devalue commenced and then the discard and how horrible that process was I was deperate to return to the "Nexus".
With the knowledge of N/S/P's i can see it in alot of films and it gives them whole new meanings really interesting stuff thanks for the post!
I think it is important, as we are making these realizations, that we not judge ourselves. I struggle with that.
I didnt have a troubelsome childhood. In fackt, mine was very good. These People can con and manipulate who ever it will be. ( Remember Dr. Hare and his team , that admitt they are still "taken inn" now and then. ) I am not saying that we shall not look into ourselv and gain wisdom , but to want to be loved is not a weakness, it is what all People in reality need most of all. I think that the most of us here on this forum are not gullible , weak persons. We are able to see what has been going on . This is not about us, we were "hit" by the Train so to speak. Who on Earth had the knowledge that we needed at that time? Now it is different.
Looking back now, it is times when I think , how could I overlook all these signs. Then I remember: They are not normal People and the way they scanned us and used us is supernatual.
Hope you understand what I try to say. English is not my mother toungh.
Thank you also for reminding us that this is about the abuser, not the victim. I agree that we are not all gullible, emotionally needy people -- beyond the level of need that is normal for a human being with healthy emotions. It is a trap that I fall into (and I think others do, too) of trying to find some flaw in ourselves that let the S/P/N predator take advantage. In reality, that predator is both amazingly sick and amazingly skilled in playing their games.
Thank you for reminding me to stop blaming myself.