Victims of Psychopaths Community Group
Is he or she a sociopath or psychopath? Think we're only talking about serial killers here? Psychopaths, sociopaths and even narcissists come in every walk of life, every career level, and every socio-economic category.
Today I am doing a tad bit better, it is a day to day, hour by hour, minute by minute healing process. It has been three weeks with No contact. The Discard and no closure is what is bizarre and rattling. They say they love you, but this certainly isn't LOVE. Love is talking about thinks, working things out, being there for one another, communicating, etc. It is very hard to get these kind of individuals "out of your head." He said he was going to "MIND fuck" the shit out of me, thats what he tried to do to me.
ashleymcn86
That's what I can't accept. In mynjead I know he loved me..if he didn't then why did he touch me how he did. Kiss me how he did invest time and effort into me? It's so so hard getting your head around the fact that was all a huge lie!! A pathological lie that they truly believed. Almost 3 weeks no contact! I'm slowly getting there...think of the bad not the good. Remember you can't argue with facts x
Kellum10
Right! I feel the exact sam way, how can all that be "fake" how is that humanely possible?
Gunjan07
They are "SATAN".
ashleymcn86
i am feeling this tonight. i dont understand i felt his love for me with everything. i miss him so badly yet i know its a lie, 4 weeks NC nothing... he could have emailed me about our 11 month old son. but no. in stead hes on badoo searching for another. it kills me so, but im 31 i got to move on.. i must
Kellum10
@ashleymcn86 prayers and thoughts are with you. You hve to do what is best for you and your son!!!
sweets81
"Mind Fucking" is exactly what he said to me and he did it. I use to think it was cute when he'd rub his finger across my forehead and say I'm in there, I should've ran then and maybe it wouldn't be so bad now. Sadly, I'm going through the same thing, it's been two weeks nc and I've cried myself to sleep every night. I can't understand how my heart could allow me to fall in love with someone so cold and emotionally empty. Five years of giving unconditional love to someone that doesn't even know what that is and I still love him and I miss him so so much..
Kellum10
@sweets81 thinking of you!
HopelessInlove
I miss my ex so much. :(
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