These people are so two faced. there's no point in even trying to be civil & nice to them because they don't even respect that,not one bit!. My ex sociopath/narcissist's brother hurt me so badly(i mentioned it in a previous thread).About 7 months ago him and his brother would beg me to nasty things with them.It hurt me, made me feel like a sex object & worthless. shortly after that my ex discarded me & I told his brother that it's best that i not talk to him for a while because I was deeply hurt by the two of them. I needed time to pull myself together;I needed time to my self. About a few weeks later I took the risk and started talking to him again despite what he did to me( Being the kind sweet person that I am ) . He wasnt the same. He was distant as if he didnt really want to talk to me. He said whenever i told him that we couldnt talk for a while it hurt him. I did not understand how it could have hurt him because i was not disrespectful & i had a good reason.I could not believe he had the audacity to hold that against me when he didnt even apologize to me for what he did or admit that it was wrong. I had nightmares and bad flashbacks because of that whole situation. After that he remained two faced, evil & continued playing with my emotions. I have deleted and added him a few times from facebook,thats how confused & frustrated i was toward him.

Recently i have been letting him wait for his ride to come pick him up at my house just to be nice,you know. I was hesitant to be real nice & lighthearted to him because of everything that happened but i did it anyway. He would be immature/inappropriate intentionally but I tolerated it. He would insult me but i tolerated it. Yesterday he and my friend were over. I forgot how the topic of friendship came up but it did. I said "Well you're not my friend,you're just a boy"...I said it in a teasing tone but i meant the" you're not my friend" part. After that he acted like it didnt faze him & he was his annoying self still. Well Earlier today I decided to wish him happy birthday on his fb. I was hesistant once again but i ignored my instinct & did it. I wrote "Happy birthday,big head :)" to make him laugh. Several people posted on his wall & he liked it and commented but to mine he intentionally ignored it. Thats like a slap on the face for somebody to ignore you like that after you have welcomed them to your home & been nice. I messaged him basically telling him that he's fake & he decided not to take me seriously & tease. I told him he's no longer welcomed to my home. he said 'lol what?" like he was going to over anyways.I blocked him then he texted my phone

him :I dont know why you posted on my facebook,i dont need the crap on there"
Me:what???you intentionally ignored my post.i know what youre doing.thats being fake.you can take it somewhere else because i dont need that in my life
Him:I don tknow why you posted on my facebook because you say I'm not youre friend
Me:Youre not my friend.youre an acquaintance.I only have 3 friends.but ive been trying to be nice to you despite what you did to me and you continue to be flaky.so youre not even an acquaintance to me anymore.
him:thats cool!
me:bye
him Just stop!

you see,he is so immature.He has a sense of entitlement. he can treat me anyway he wants and expects me to just tolerate it. He has not yet apologized for hurting me so ...why would he think that he's my friend so quickly after all he did to me???? why do They act like youre supposed to move on & just forget after they hurt you so deeply??!