I am new to this group....I am scared to even have this down in print...There is someone at work who has been verbally sexually tormenting me. I am really uncomfortable about it. I don't want to go to HR, I feel it better that I put  a stop to it but need to find the right moment. It happens not daily but weekly. Even now typing this I am very anxious and shaking. I don't want to tell details of things that have been said. I guess paranoia about this person reading this. I could use advice on how to calm myself down and to stop it. Thank you.