Hello everyone...sorry we have or are going through this torture...I finally gave up after five years..not married but my first love at 15 found found me on FB 5 years ago...I was 62 and he 66...in unhappy marriage for 42 years...left and right after he left he just snapped and turned on me...I won't get into the gory details but reading books by author patricia evans gave me the info and strength I didn't to leave..no easy cause you keep waitingfor the nice guy tocome back...I don't think there realy was/is a nice guy I think he was just waiting til he thought he had me and wham....oh well...get her books asap
Hi! I feel like I can so relate to you. I am 62 years old. Married twice. Second husband for almost 25 years. I got the book about Verbal Abuse by Patricia Evans and have underlined the whole thing from start to finish. The more I read, the more I realized how abusive he is to me. I feel like I am coming from the zombie stage to the "what the hell!" stage. I am still trying to figure this all out. But in a way it makes sense why he is doing all the crazymaking. Arghhhhhhhhhh!