My sister in law constantly puts me down I feel she always criticizes my social skills and she uses me having autism as an excuse. I am not a rude person and I have worked with therapists and other people very hard to be nice to everyone and considerate. I also go to toastmasters and have a mentor. No one is perfect and as long as I am not actively harming anyone she should let things go. I know basic social rules and social norms to the best of my ability. If i dont know something I ask my mentors. I have several different female mentors. When i was a child she told me i walked like a duck and tried to correct my walking. She is very insensitive and jealous of others easily. She does the same to my brother. I  have had enough of it is there a way I can put a stop to it.