The Tea Room Community Group

This is a private group by invitation only. It is a group for those who have a loved one with a brain injury. This group was not founded by me but I will serve as the founder temporarily as one of the first members.

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Lyndee1968
Lyndee1968
I really do not know where to begin or if anyone will even come in to the ROOM and read this...

I fear my marriage is falling apart...

I want OUT.... Muffin I think we have reached the stage your marriage was in before your DIVORCE.....

He HAS NO FEELINGs... I mean he isn't mean or anything... I just no longer feel LOVED like I was BEFORE THAT DAY......

I told him when LITTLE turns 18 and Graduates in 2 years I am leaving...

He sat there and said NOTHING!!!!!!
muffindog
muffindog
Ah Lyndee. I am so sorry to hear this. One of the hardest things for me was dh's inability to show emotion and that the only emotions he had were anger or indifference. I was always the brunt of his anger. He just wanted me to fix everything and I couldn't. I think dh loved me but the way he showed it wasn't healthy and wore me down so much I couldn't stay. I couldn't let kidlet think what we had was marriage. Unfortunately, Kidlet is so confused by his dads broken emotions. It's such a hard thing.
normaeh
normaeh
(hugs) and tea

Lyndee, so sorry, this blasted TBI makes a mess of life. no it is not the same person, they are changed.
Do not feel guilty, hon you have done everything and beyond to make life for him and little nromal again. Now is the time for you to take care of yourself.... You are so very special you know and need to be looked after now.

I drop in every two weeks or so,