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karanhere 07/11/2009

Hi guys.
Just felt like it would a good thing to vent.
If you feel like talking about you being rejected and feeling bad and then moving on with your life then here is the platform.
For me i have been rejected twice and never had a girlfriend.Don't know why?
But i always tell myself that there is someone there for me too but still i have stupid thoughts deep inside my mind.What if i never meet her?
The girl who rejected me,i loved her so much but she was in love with a guy who was after 3 other girls.What kind of crap is that?
I am not a loser though,i just had some bad luck.
I really don't know what to do.
Please can anyone relate?

deleted_user 07/16/2009

Wow...I was just thinking about that topic.
Today, July 16th, 21 years ago I married the absolutely WRONG person for me. Oh if I had to do it all over again....I wouldn't! It would have saved me 23 years of anxiety.
Movin' on..........

deleted_user 07/16/2009

The question is KARAN...did she KNOW about the other girls? Sometimes it seems like a competition...I don't get into that...nor can I be made jealous. It's not that I don't care....I just don't see the point. If someone wants to slobber all over someones else....then they don't need me...I'd move on.
None of us here are losers.
Maybe you are going for the wrong type KARAN?

My perfect man would:
Leave me alone when I needed it.
Demand NOTHING.
Wouldn't whine.
Would not give me murdered flowers.....but a book instead.
He would realize the kitchen is MY DOMAIN....and stay out of it....unless I ask for help.
Leave the bathroom just as he found it.
AND...most importantly......UNDERSTAND MY QUIRKS AND ACT ACCORDINGLY.

:D

karanhere 07/17/2009

Hey thanks for the reply.But i think you took it the wrong way.
I did'nt mean that anybody is a loser here.I just wanted to convey that i have moved on and have learnt a gr8 lesson.
TAKE CARE.

deleted_user 07/22/2009

i havent dated much.

seems like some people rush into it.

seems like some people avoid it.

i avoid it.

maybe im in denial... but it seems like if i dont feel like its there, then i dont try. ill fall back on the same, wondering why i never date, why i dont sleep around, why im never doing anything. like im rejected by society, or that im alone. then ill meet someone... and i just dont see it.

i flirt... it helps. ..i guess.

deleted_user 07/27/2009

I never been in a relationship. I had and sometimes still have crushes on girls but usually they have a boyfriend, kids from prevoius relationships or their lifestyle is not suitable. I writen to girls who are in two Christian friendship agencies. When the first said she wanted noting more to do with me I was very upset I has a few more contacts who dumped like the first but I started to get use to it then there was one that I liked who wrote quite regurarly. I waited for her next letter to come because I wanted to write back and say that she could phone me if she wanted to. Her next letter never came and I was upset again in fact out of all of them I hate her more than the rest. Maybe it is my fault I have aspergers syndrome so I do not understand the all the rules of making contact and develeloping relationships with females

deleted_user 07/27/2009

as to me its clear that if i like guy he will never like me..... at list thats how it is now ..... i try to remind myself that if God has planed it 4 me sooner or leyter it will happend but to say truth i start loosing hope.....God bless

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